"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alpheta

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Am i over thinking a situation or is that my gut feel/instinct?

How do you identify it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alpheta

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Be more specific.
As in if her behavior changes for instance, you get this feeling that somethings up.

Its just sometimes I feel its me being parro.

However, you hear that always following your gut and instinct is the way forward.
 

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Stop focusing on a single female and you won't have to deal with these anxieties.
 

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As in if her behavior changes for instance, you get this feeling that somethings up.

Its just sometimes I feel its me being parro.

However, you hear that always following your gut and instinct is the way forward.
When their behavior changes. That is specific. There is only one reason their behaviour changes. Their interest is falling.
Interest falls, then the disrespect comes. That is usually a sign she is getting new attention.

Trust your gut.

And what alpha nate said.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Whor3!!!:p

Kidding, I'd walk, at this point... Odds are, she needs space, and is being overpersued.
 
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