"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gut feeling

Alpheta

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Am i over thinking a situation or is that my gut feel/instinct?

How do you identify it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alpheta

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Be more specific.
As in if her behavior changes for instance, you get this feeling that somethings up.

Its just sometimes I feel its me being parro.

However, you hear that always following your gut and instinct is the way forward.
 

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Stop focusing on a single female and you won't have to deal with these anxieties.
 

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As in if her behavior changes for instance, you get this feeling that somethings up.

Its just sometimes I feel its me being parro.

However, you hear that always following your gut and instinct is the way forward.
When their behavior changes. That is specific. There is only one reason their behaviour changes. Their interest is falling.
Interest falls, then the disrespect comes. That is usually a sign she is getting new attention.

Trust your gut.

And what alpha nate said.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Whor3!!!:p

Kidding, I'd walk, at this point... Odds are, she needs space, and is being overpersued.
 
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