gurls wit mixed signs?!

[JayUK]

Hey, Ive really liked this gurl for a while, she goes to my college an shes 2 years below me, which I dont see as that much of a problem, an my mate was goin out wit one of her mates so it was all good, i got to go see her, an shes in my form at college (registration) So i walk her out of form sometimes an to the lunchroom, but i feel like I aint doin enough!

So im in form the other day, an im kinda tryna make her laugh, she sits 2 away from me, an this dude who sits inbetween soo wants to get wit her! I was sayin that in my drama class, Im the only straight guy, an she was like 'wow ure straight?!' sarcastcally, an the dude in the middle said 'u sound intrested' an she smiled at me.

BUT me an my mate were walkin home, an she was behind us on her own!, so my mate too a detour, to leve me alone so she mite talk to me? but instead she crosses the road to the other side, walks past me on the other side of the road, waits till shes well clear of me, an then cross back over onto my side just as she makes a left, so she doesnt hav to talk to me, I was gutted, you think she was avoidin me? and why?!

The next day i walked into the canteen, and her mate saw me, an quickly tapped the gurl i like an pointed me out, this gurl smiled an then i was like 'riiiiite, does she like me or what?!'

SHe also has all these guys that fancy her an folow her round, so Im tryna be the opposite an jus giv her space, but talk to her aswell, thanks for readin!
Help a UK brother out!

 

[DJ4Real]

It's not that you're not doing enough. It's that you aren't doing the right stuff.

Don't follow this girl around. Be the dominate one. Make her earn your approval. At the moment, I can sense that you are doing things backwards and you're trying to earn her approval....

Obviously, this girl must be "hot" and she knows that she's "hot" because all of these guys follow her around and stuff.

When she went around you across the street and then back the same side, It could be 1 of 3 things...1. She could have been avoiding you 2. She's got game and knows how attraction works 3. She was confused about which side of the road she was on.

My ultimate guess would be "number 2" because she (or one of her friends) smiled at you. Now, here's your chance, you need to be ****y and funny and challenging to her. Don't give yourself up easily and be difficult. Work on being unavailable and make her think about you instead of visa versa.

Good Luck

 

[JayUK]

Thats Awesome man! Its just wit all these guys that follow her round, i dont want her to think 'i can jus go back to them, this guys jus not worth messin round over'
An her mate might be sayin somethin like 'hey theres that lad that fancies u' cus her mates think i like her, so I wanna try an see her out of college first, or jus go up to her an jus kiss her, somethin explosve to sweep her off her feet, but meanwhile, im gna try an play it in my form class! I cant Kino her or anythin, like jus a sly push if she says sumthin sarcastic, because thers sum lad in the way, but theres a netball game on friday (all the forms get together an play each other) and sometimes she makes cheeky comments like 'i could have caught that' (from a ball I didnt catch) so id giv he a slight push, jus a mess around thing, but shes in her own little world, like I went to this bar she goes too, an she was sat in these sofas an they wer so low sunken, id have to get on my knees to talk to her, she seemed happy to see me, i ju sgave her a thumbs up cus i didnt wna do too much, but I guess thats enough, i didnt wna give away everythin like 'oh u look so beautiful' so what cud i say to her if i get the chance?! like somethin ****y, cus when i walk her to the canteen, i wana say somethin solid to her, like you look nice! but everyone says that, so I want somethin ****y?! or playful?!! thanks!