"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gunwitch Method/Sex Revolution Journal-From Approach to Lay

PupilOfSex

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Well everyone Im here to grow up REALLY fast in the seduction community by doing the impossible, go from hardly getting girls to perhaps same day lay them. If not same day, then obviously set-up Day2. Ive seen lots of people INCORPORATE some Gunwitch into their technique, though I haven't seen many field reports where its strictly Gunwitch and his style. In the past, I have used on and off some Gunwitch though I wasn't 100% totally serious about it.

Also, Ive been following Dan "Spirit Fingers" blog for quite some time as Im a huge fan of 'tHE-Approach' guys. I love his style and outlook in general (not just laying chicks) and lately he has been posting even more intriguing stuff. More or less, using more sexual congruence stuff than say 'pick-up' stuff (routines, C+F, etc). I do not care to build a big social network of friends (as I like hanging out with my brothers and would rather spend time with them) or become a regular 'pick-up' artist. Just sex with girls.

Im not total newbie like where Ive never done approaches before, and I have slept with a few women ranging from ok to pretty hot. It's been a LONG ASS time since Ive done any real approaching and hence, I still have as much approach anxiety almost the same as a newbie. I 'think' I have some social anxiety so it makes **** that much tougher.

At this moment, Im just waiting for Dan to see if he can get confirmation on some things before I can roll this week. If not, its all good. Ill still use some of the stuff I learned from Dan though I will be mainly be using strict Gunwitch Method as laid out in his e-book since I am more familiar with that.

Right now my living situation is CRAP and so are finances but both are in the proccess of being fixed. But if girls want sex as much or even more than guys, than living/finance situations are not a huge deal right? ALso, as far as looks goes, Im a bit above average. Though my body at the moment is a bit crap (skinny arms with a bit of a gut..I suffer from "skinny/fat" syndrome) though I have been hitting the gym to improve on that. My style is not that great either, basic button up shirts w/ jeans though lately Ive been investing on some cooler clothes. Im going for tighter clothes as said by Dimitri in terms of his style of wardrobe.

More to come later tonight
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blackgame, cool to see another fan of Gunwitch commenting here.
Yeah I am taking control of my love life and taking one step at a time.
Gonna make my next post on my own anxities and fears and I think other guys can relate.
 

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Before I get into other **** like "My 25 Gunwitch Approaches" or "Spirit Dan's Missions" or whatever, I want to talk about what my fears are.
This is the **** that prevents me from making the move.

MYTH:
1) Im not physically fit with abs. In fact, Im a tad bit chubby and therefore if a girl finds out she will not want to have sex with me.

TRUTH: According to Gunwitch, being fat or having chub is a repellant, but this is more towards the extreme end. The biggest thing he mentioned was that many hot chicks **** guys that are not really 'their ideal' types, like hot bodies, etc. They take what comes at them, and many guys who are super fit, rich, charismatic....don't actually approach.

Yeah, being leaner will increase your odds of having sex and all but that doesnt mean it will prvent it. I still remember when I lost my virginity at 20 that I was very damn chubby. And guess what I used that whole time? Sexual state before I even heard Gunwitch.

MYTH:
2) Living condition/finances suck therefore girls will be repelled.

TRUTH: According to Dan Spirit Fingers and Gunwitch, this all moot point. Girls want to have sex (or make that, good sex) so your finanances/living conditions are hardly important at all. Give them good sex and thats what they want in the end.

MYTH:
3) I dont know what to say next, they yawn when I talk therefore I am boring.

TRUTH:
According to Gunwitch in an online internet interview, his basic thing is it doesnt matter at all what you say, its all ****. Meaning its all irrelevant. Although in his Dynamic Sex Ebook he does discuss the importance of relaxation and rapport, talking on neutral topics like tv stuff.
Im guessing Sexual State overrides any verbal exchanges as long you maintain basic neutral convo.


Well, as of now, Im just waiting to see what the word is on Dan's part on helping me. If not, then Ill do mainly Gunwitch and slowly incorporate Dan's stuff in there.
 
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