"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if anyone here is knowledgeable about Gunwitch - did he ever explicitly mention neghits? If he did not, what do you guys think he thought about it? Also, how do you think he'd handle sh)t tests?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't think he recommended negging. And as far as sh!t tests, I think he recommended ignoring them and keep plowing until the woman actually said no or made it clear. It's been awhile since I read his stuff, but that's my recollection.
 

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Negging doesn't work for every girl. While Gunwitch has a lot of good stuff in his works, don't take it too litteraly. Develop your own way of hadling chicks.
 

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gunwitch's trademark line: "make the ho say no"... that replies to the **** tests.

i never read any of his articles regarding neghits, sorry. but this is my take on this thing, when you are going direct like she knows why you are there, casual neghits like 'u would look great in a red dress. anyways, u look good in this too', is the right way to go, or 'oh my god, no body warned me u smell so FRESH' *very playful vibe*.... are cool. she knows you are joking but still that makes her ground shaky. power of ****y/funny, you see.
 
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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
if anyone here is knowledgeable about Gunwitch - did he ever explicitly mention neghits? If he did not, what do you guys think he thought about it? Also, how do you think he'd handle sh)t tests?
Gunwitch knows that too many idiots don't know how to neg the right way, so he teaches against it. The Gunwitch method is more for the direct "I'm a horny f*ck give it now" approach and is pretty much absent of advanced mind games prevalent in most seduction routines. It's worked for me a few times and I'm trying to practice it more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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