"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anile8

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hi
At skool im perseived as a bit of a gun-nut. Im into airsoft and paintball but my friends just know both airsoft and paintball as shooting people with guns. (Airsoft is banned in my country and thus adding a bit more of a violence interest in there eyes).
So dont get me wrong people arent afraid of me or anything but they know i like gun-related sports
I am fully aware that this is a bad situation and should never have gotten here in the first place, but is there anyway to shake that reputation off??
any help would be greatly apreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anomalous

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It's actually a good thing, LIKE A BAD BOY.

And girls like BAD BOYS!!
 

The Master Disaster

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Depends on your age but as you get older your going to be precieved as a younging and they will think your immature. So I say drop it at 16 +
 

Hot Ice

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Nothing beats shooting live round bursts with an assault rifle... :cool:
 

john_x

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Originally posted by anile8
hi

I am fully aware that this is a bad situation and should never have gotten here in the first place, but is there anyway to shake that reputation off??

why the hell is it a bad situation? its your hobby yes?
dont change for other people,, or change your ways to fit in with there veiws
FOOOOOOK THEM
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Aznkid1030

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haha ^ funny pic but yeah if you are dedicated to it whatever your hobby is dont listen to other people.
 

Phat

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yeh 1 way is to stop telling everyone that ur into that stuff. keep it to ur self. Or find a new hobby
 
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