"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gunner26

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Before I get started, it is quite long, but hopefully some of you guys might enjoy it.

So I went out Friday night with some mates and it was prety fun. Loads happened, I went home with a HB5, but nothing happened as I was completly smashed. Probably should have been the moment to loose my V, but oh well, plenty more opportunities for that. However this was the standout part.

We get to the club about 10 o'clock, pretty early as we had been expecting a large queue, but nothing and we waltzed straight in. At this point it was me and 5 lads, we'd pre drank seperatly from the women and they were meeting us in the club about half 10. So yea we go in, get a seat as the dance floor is still dead, and get some drinks in. About ten minutes later I get up to go to toilet and give up my seat, when I come back there's 3 girls - 1 HB7, 1 HB6 & 1 HB5, sitting around the edge of our table quietly drinking their drinks. I sit back down on the edge of my mates closest to the girls and continue drinking. At this point I'm not really thinking to much about the women, I'm chilling with my mates, they're doing their own thing.

Anyways a couple minutes later one of the boys nods his head at me telling me to turn and take a look at these girls, who are blatantly checking us out. As I do the HB6 comes over and just sits herself down next to me, looking me straight in the eyes. I turn my head around a little more and say 'I guess this is the part where the man says hi, right?' With a smile on my face. I get a massive smile back and we start to chat, my mates leave me to it and at first it's going really well, kino from the start and I've got her laughing. I see her friends keep looking over at my mates and none of my boys are doing anything, so I take matters into my own hands and start asking my girl which one of my mates her friends would like. We get pretty into it, I drag her 2 friends into it as well while my mates continue chatting to themselves. I establish which one the HB5 wants and introduce briefly, the HB7 was kind of iffy, but I still got her talking to one of my mates.

Then it goes to ****.

So I continue talking to this HB6, and she brings up this game that her and her friends are playing. I ask what the game is and the rules. Straight up she says to my face, 'yeah the game is to get with the hottest guy in the club' immediatly I'm turned off a little, kinda flattered and thinking she's full of ****. I'm not a bad looking guy, but I'm certainly not the best looking guy in the club at 140 pounds.

My reply to her is 'Thank you' with a wink, then I say 'I guess your pretty too' MASSIVE MISTAKE she calls me on saying 'I guess'. Not really expecting such hostility on a phrase of words I try and play it off, saying that because she complimented me so excellently, I thought she was deserving of one too. No dice. Kino stops, she looks me in the eye and pretty much demands to know if I think she's pretty, at this point I've lost all interest, and my boys have gone to the bar. I say yes I think your pretty. She replies, 'Good' What the **** sort of reaction is that?!?![/I] and stops talking, crosses her arms and just sits there, waiting for me to try and win back her affection. I can't be bothered, I was out to have a good time and this girl, which had started so promising was ruining my vibe.

This is the kicker, the adios lady moment, it's probably the biggest a$$hole thing I've done to date. I touch her on the arm, look her up and down and go, 'You know what, I was lying' PHWOOOSH, she's gone, up and away before I could even say goodbye. I smile to myself and hit the bar, the night continues and I have a kickass time.

To finish off the story, I made out with her HB7 friend later on, on the dancefloor, while my wing made out with the HB5. It was quite satisfying.

Gunner
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewAndImproved

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LOL, sounds like you had a fun night man.

Wouldn't worry about the HB6. Though usually when I get a huge compliment like the one you got, I keep it simple. "Thanks" and leave it at that. Keep it moving. No big deal.

And you made out with the hottest in the group anyway.
 

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You did good. You told the 6 what she already feared (and of course, KNEW) about herself then made out with her hotter friend. Keep at it.
 

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Cheers boys. I did have a good time and thought I did quite well. A year or so ago I would have spent a while actually trying to rescue the situation instead of just letting it go.

New and Improved you make a point, next time I will just say thanks and continue on with the conversation, or maybe better, if I get that line again just straight out make a move on them. I did briefly debate it before saying thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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