"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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*guilty and being used*

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A university colleague said after having the first time sex with me: u used me and am feeling guilty, u only wanna **** me.

How should i response? I dont want a real relationship ..just fvck buddies
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Start the condo with a confused look on your face and say "OMG, I didn't tell you I wasn't looking for LTR? I thought we talked about that? '
 

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Having "the first time sex"? Was she a virgin? If so, what on f*cking Earth would lead you to believe a virgin would be a good choice for a F-Buddy?
Na bro we had the first time; she isnt a virgin
 
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"I'm attracted to you and I enjoy spending time with you, but I have too much on my plate right now to get into a serious relationship."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't take that crap serious, I'd just agree and tell her she just wants to lock you down and use you for a relationship. Wtf
 

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I'm not going to point any fingers (at her) but she REALLY should have locked your intentions down BEFORE she spread.

Some chicks are cool with giving it away. I dont judge. But I'm always amazed at the ones who are willing to do the deed, knowing that they are looking for LTR (or something like it) and they cross their fingers, uncross their legs, and hope it will all work out the way they want.

I just want to scream TALK IDIOT. In mt experience, the moment you start talking about what you are lookig for, and ask him the same, you learn where his head is at. It's so simple!

You say nothing, he says nothing, you have $ex. You get whatever you get.
 
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