*guilty and being used*

[Mayo]

A university colleague said after having the first time sex with me: u used me and am feeling guilty, u only wanna **** me.

How should i response? I dont want a real relationship ..just fvck buddies

 

[Poon King]

Tell her you are up for something casual, but you are too busy right now with your goals to get serious with anyone.

 

[sazc]

Start the condo with a confused look on your face and say "OMG, I didn't tell you I wasn't looking for LTR? I thought we talked about that? '

 

[Mayo]

Having "the first time sex"? Was she a virgin? If so, what on f*cking Earth would lead you to believe a virgin would be a good choice for a F-Buddy?

Na bro we had the first time; she isnt a virgin

 

[user43770]

"I'm attracted to you and I enjoy spending time with you, but I have too much on my plate right now to get into a serious relationship."

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

"Well, you're probably right."

 

[SgtSplacker]

Don't take that crap serious, I'd just agree and tell her she just wants to lock you down and use you for a relationship. Wtf

 

[sazc]

I'm not going to point any fingers (at her) but she REALLY should have locked your intentions down BEFORE she spread.

Some chicks are cool with giving it away. I dont judge. But I'm always amazed at the ones who are willing to do the deed, knowing that they are looking for LTR (or something like it) and they cross their fingers, uncross their legs, and hope it will all work out the way they want.

I just want to scream TALK IDIOT. In mt experience, the moment you start talking about what you are lookig for, and ask him the same, you learn where his head is at. It's so simple!

You say nothing, he says nothing, you have $ex. You get whatever you get.