“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guidelines before entering a relationship

Bitcoindna

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Your guidelines should be clear to your girl before agreeing to enter a "relationship" new guidelines shold not come up long time into the relationship

what would you add?

examples:


  • You don't like here showing to much on snapchat story (snap from the gym workouts etc seeking attention from others instead of you)

  • Like you don't like male friends (what can they bring that you can't?) Deleting male snapchat friends (orbitors) this should come naturally for here and not in a controlling way (but how do you handel when she asks you the same? We know relationship work better when the girl have more competition anxiety) Same sex friendship are not the same as male female friendship. There are fundamental differences in the ways men and women view friendship. What do you need to talk about with male friends that you cant talk with me about?

  • Same mindset that modern relationships don't work and more traditional relationships is the best way where there were more clear roles, we know our place, what is ecspected of us, not debating everything. All sexual relationships will be better if the man assumes his masculine role and the woman assumes her feminine role.

  • Agreeing that you have 51% responsibility and therefor 51% authority (you die protecting here) you could also make here say 2+2 is 5, she could not make you say the same, there is a difference...(mindset should be 100% responsibility for everything, he is exactly where he deserve to be)

  • If she becomes so masculine aggressive that If she hits you, (fights you) you walk away, she lost respect, goodbye, Its much harder to fix something that is broken then not let it be broken In the first place

  • Ecpectations?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Mazer

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Relationships.... (sigh...)

Trading increasingly bad sex for your freedom... Sorry no thank you.

Even if you follow all the OPs rules, you have STILL surrendered your freedom for bad sex.
Can confirm haha
 

Stanley

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Best of luck finding an attractive young woman who doesn't vie for the attention of men online
 

RangerMIke

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Best of luck finding an attractive young woman who doesn't vie for the attention of men online
Women will always have a back-up plan... no matter how content she is with whatever situation she is in. Social media gives her a low risk option to get her attention fix. Most women will not act on this... but what it does is it prevents her from putting in the work needed to make a 'relationship' work. It provides women with the illusion that she has MANY options... the more options she believes she has, the less likely she will work to keep what she has. This causes the relationship dude to work harder to keep her, the harder he 'works' the less respect she has for him... no respect = no love, no love = bad sex.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Murk

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Trading increasingly bad sex for your freedom... Sorry no thank you.
So true, but why is it true? Why does relationship sex get so boring/played out?
 

SW15

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The Iron Rules of Tomassi are strong guidelines.

 

RangerMIke

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So true, but why is it true? Why does relationship sex get so boring/played out?
Women are easily bored. Their emotions drag them all over the place... this decreases as they age, but that coincides with their sex drive going down. There is not a fvcking thing any man can do about this. If she is 'loyal' she will stick around, but will torture you because it is your fault she isn't 'feeling it', will get b1tchy, get fat... in an attempt to drive you off.

When this happens do yourself and her a favor and leave, yeah you will be the dirtbag b@stard, but you are giving her what she wants.
 
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