"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

guide to time/date closing after number close?

P

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
does anyone have a play by play of what to do after you've no. closed and try for a time close for the date?

i always seem to get into trouble straight after a no. close to set up a date, be it straight away or on the phone.

i'll be like 'ok i'm busy tonight and tomorrow but hows the next day at 8pm?'

she'll be like 'oh.. i dont know.. i'll write u a message and let u know if im free on that day'

i usually end up trying to get her to commit to a time but it doesnt work.

i take this as a flaky answer but i dont know what to do or respond with, any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

C

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
did u ever ask when are they available and make the date then, SOMETIMES LISTENING works.
 
P

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
COD said:
did u ever ask when are they available and make the date then, SOMETIMES LISTENING works.
Click to expand...

sometimes but i still get the same answer 'hmm..i dont know.. i'll write u a message and let u know' she wants it to always be on her terms and her schedule.

i obviously have not built up enough super high interest for her to be excited to see me, and tho she likes me just wants to meet me when it fits into her schedule/doesn't coincide with her wanting to go partying with her girls etc.

what can you do when she says this?
 
P

pete101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2006
Messages
1,030
Reaction score
8
does anyone have a play by play on how to arrange a time with a girl who's being difficult.. not necessarily a sign of disinterest but maybe is conscious of looking over keen so rejects your offer of a meet up time.

(unfortunately in my case i end up pushing for a time so i lose them)

if she says 'no i'm busy that day.' and doesn't offer another day should u just hang up the phone?

what signal does that send to her?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top