guide to time/date closing after number close?

[pete101]

does anyone have a play by play of what to do after you've no. closed and try for a time close for the date?

i always seem to get into trouble straight after a no. close to set up a date, be it straight away or on the phone.

i'll be like 'ok i'm busy tonight and tomorrow but hows the next day at 8pm?'

she'll be like 'oh.. i dont know.. i'll write u a message and let u know if im free on that day'

i usually end up trying to get her to commit to a time but it doesnt work.

i take this as a flaky answer but i dont know what to do or respond with, any suggestions?

 

[COD]

did u ever ask when are they available and make the date then, SOMETIMES LISTENING works.

 

[pete101]

did u ever ask when are they available and make the date then, SOMETIMES LISTENING works.

sometimes but i still get the same answer 'hmm..i dont know.. i'll write u a message and let u know' she wants it to always be on her terms and her schedule.

i obviously have not built up enough super high interest for her to be excited to see me, and tho she likes me just wants to meet me when it fits into her schedule/doesn't coincide with her wanting to go partying with her girls etc.

what can you do when she says this?

 

[pete101]

does anyone have a play by play on how to arrange a time with a girl who's being difficult.. not necessarily a sign of disinterest but maybe is conscious of looking over keen so rejects your offer of a meet up time.

(unfortunately in my case i end up pushing for a time so i lose them)

if she says 'no i'm busy that day.' and doesn't offer another day should u just hang up the phone?

what signal does that send to her?