Guide To Getting Girls

[Smooth as Anything]

1. Don’t believe anything the media tells you about getting women, its bull**** and it’ll only end-up confusing you.

2. Getting women like any other obstacle in your life is a matter of motivation, perseverance, determination and strength. Any of you who think getting girls is easy, wake the fxck up – you’re exaggerating on your own accomplishments.

3. 10 step methods and out-of-the-box solutions are BS. Don’t even bother.

4. NEVER listen to anyone but yourself. If you disagree with someone, go ahead, do what you think is right… we all need learning experiences.

5. Getting girls is a matter of math:

5a. If A, is how physically attractive you are. If B, is how physically attractive the girl is. If C, is how mentally attractive you are, and if D is how mentally attractive the girl is, then:

A = B unless C > D

5b. Fact of the matter is, you need to be as physically attractive to the girl as she is to you. Granted, you’ll see some fatass walking around with a HB, but how often does that happen? Rarely does C > D work. It’s not going to happen to you, and if it does – how the hell would you feel?

6. Work out. I don’t know why you aren’t. Get in the gym immediately. Start to make friends with testosterone.

6a. Go to the Health and Fitness forum and view Diesels guide on cutting up or bulking up, whichever is more appropriate for you.

7. Being popular is a matter of math:

7a. A is how attractive you are. B is how attractive your hierarchy peers are. C is how fxcking dumb you are.

A must be near B, and you lose points for C.

7b. Dumb isn’t ignorant. Making the move from a nerd to a ‘popular kid’ means you’ll have to change a lot of your habits, and you’ll just be dumb about things until you become comfortable with your new surroundings. Matter of fact.

8. Time to cut. Find which friends you want and which friends you have because you have no one else. Cut the excess fat off you.
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To Recap: You already know all of this, but you have excuses for why you don’t do it. Congratulations, at this rate you’ll be dead and regretting your life in no time!

 

[Sammo]

Excellent to see you back smooth, i was beginning to think you had stopped posting.

1. Don’t believe anything the media tells you about getting women, its bull**** and it’ll only end-up confusing you.

Good point.

2. Getting women like any other obstacle in your life is a matter of motivation, perseverance, determination and strength. Any of you who think getting girls is easy, wake the fxck up – you’re exaggerating on your own accomplishments.

Realising this is the first step to success in any area of life.

3. 10 step methods and out-of-the-box solutions are BS. Don’t even bother.

Read that again, there are NO magic pill asnwers.

4. NEVER listen to anyone but yourself. If you disagree with someone, go ahead, do what you think is right… we all need learning experiences.

True, instead of coming online and asking people what to do, go out and do what you thinks best and learn something from it. Then come back and share it with us, knowledge will feel so much more valuable to you if you practise it.

5. Getting girls is a matter of math:

5a. If A, is how physically attractive you are. If B, is how physically attractive the girl is. If C, is how mentally attractive you are, and if D is how mentally attractive the girl is, then:

A = B unless C > D

5b. Fact of the matter is, you need to be as physically attractive to the girl as she is to you. Granted, you’ll see some fatass walking around with a HB, but how often does that happen? Rarely does C > D work. It’s not going to happen to you, and if it does – how the hell would you feel?

6. Work out. I don’t know why you aren’t. Get in the gym immediately. Start to make friends with testosterone.

6a. Go to the Health and Fitness forum and view Diesels guide on cutting up or bulking up, whichever is more appropriate for you.

This is true, also, get a tan it is one of the best physically attractive improvements you can make to yourself.

Being popular is a matter of math:

7a. A is how attractive you are. B is how attractive your hierarchy peers are. C is how fxcking dumb you are.

A must be near B, and you lose points for C.

7b. Dumb isn’t ignorant. Making the move from a nerd to a ‘popular kid’ means you’ll have to change a lot of your habits, and you’ll just be dumb about things until you become comfortable with your new surroundings. Matter of fact.

8. Time to cut. Find which friends you want and which friends you have because you have no one else. Cut the excess fat off you.

nice one

Recap: You already know all of this, but you have excuses for why you don’t do it. Congratulations, at this rate you’ll be dead and regretting your life in no time!

awesome mate.

 

[October]

Bump.

 

[MrS]

I live in the medi, I don't tan.
So blow that for a laugh

 

[pimpfromdayone]

I think a man's success with women mainly stems from his attitude. Of course he has to be cool, confident, be determined, motivated, be a challenge to women, and learn to stop caring what others think of him (lose self-consciousness in social situations), but he also has to have an attitude that he is the best thing that ever happened to the world.

I would completely agree with you on the physical attractiveness thing, but I just can't because I see SO many average-unattractive men walking around with hot women. I consider myself pretty good looking, and really fit, and I used to have people call me "hot" and ask my name all the time, etc., but during this time I had a bad attitude and low confidence, was anti-social and suffered miserably. Looks did nothing for me. Every year at Valentine's Day, one can go into the gym and see many muscular and attractive men working out by themselves...... meaning, they are all single and lonely without dates. What do the scrawny but successful guys have that these guys don't? I know some men from either side, and I can tell you it all boils down to their personality and attitude. Most of the muscular guys I know are not exactly very smart, and you can tell something about them is just OFF: You get the sense that they are trying to impress people, and with women, this is a BIG no no. Insecurity and low self-esteem are often sensed as well. Now I myself workout occasionally, but you can't focus all of your energy on that, or rely on that to get you women, because there are other things I believe to be more important. These people are lying to themselves saying all it takes to get women is to be able to bench just that 10 more lbs, and some become obsessed with it, and some are NEVER happy with their bodies. Self-improvement is GREAT, but you need to have a balance in your life and when you workout you should do it for yourself, not women. I just wanted to point that out.

I will add some of my thoughts:

make yourself look as physically attractive as possible, improve yourself, but at the same time be happy with your current appearance, or else your confidence will suffer. Improve appearance with nice clothes.

get your attitude right. Repeated once again, have high confidence, persevere, optimism, stop caring what others think.

Learn women. Women operate much differently than men. They are emotionally driven creatures. They are attracted to men because of how they make them FEEL. Challenge, mystery, dominance, etc., all cause the attraction. The problem with most men is that they try to apply logic to women, but there is no logic there. They might try to impress them, to give them reasons and try to convince women to like them with words, or worse: they might think that just because they show the woman love, she will show it in return. These are all logical for an average man, but they have nothing to do with attraction because they have nothing to do with how she feels, and in the end, nothing else matters but how attracted SHE is to YOU. When women hear you talk, they listen to how you talk, your voice tone, not just the words. When women look into your eyes they see confidence, masculinity, power, not just pretty eyes like a man would see in her. They are experts at reading body language, supposedly 10 times as good as men are. You also know that body language is like 70% of communication, so you have to learn to use this to your favor..... because attractive women are already very fluent in this language.

There are many things women do that men just don't understand. Imagine yourself as an attractive women.... now 10 men a day try to pick you up, and at first it is a rush, but it becomes kinda annoying, all these losers doing this to you. You must do something, because you simply don't have time for everyone. How do you pick the best man? What is attractive to you? Do you go for the guy that is like all the rest, or does that one man catch your eye, the one man who wouldn't take shi-t from you? You're right, it is the guy who is different, the guy you couldn't control, the guy who made you laugh, the guy who showed you no special treatment, and you thought it was absolutely amazing that he seemed to only want to be friends. In any case, with every man that approaches, you TEST them. Are they already head-over-heels for you? No challenge there, bye bye. Women give "bit-ch shields", just a term for how they are basically inaccessible to a man unless he is worthy of them (in their eyes). They brush men off all the time with this shield. Only men of attitude survive it. Women know they can make most men "fold" very easily, they just have to give you an attitude. The men who are successful know this is the first test, and they recognize that all they have to do is give some attitude back, and stand up like men. You've now caught her attention. The woman subconsciously does ALL this. Nothing is done by pure logic. The successful man knows how to communicate with women on a deeper, more primitive level. There are other tests women give, whether they know it or not. They might repeatedly test how much of a man you are by asking you to do things for them, telling you what not to do, or giving you an attitude. You must of course always stand your ground, or you lose.

tweak your personality. Try to (gradually) integrate the attractive personality traits into your personality. Everyone knows the coc-ky/funny idea, it works.... but you have to have a more complex personality than that. Be more dominant with women, be a leader, don't be afraid to tease them, to playfully make fun of them, and when they give you an attitude, don't back down like a weak insecure man as most men are. Now don't be a cold bas-tard, you should still be respectful, but learn to not be so nice all the time. It's all balance. If you act coc-ky and indifferent towards her with your words, you can show her you're a nice guy with your actions. Never tell a girl you like her (in the beginning), show it...... you have to send mixed messages to make her wonder, and by wondering about you, you will be the object of her desires.

Be sociable and really outgoing. If you are anti-social, you'll get nowhere. If you are like that, force yourself to be social, because it will really help you. If you don't like being around people, well, how good are you going to be finding women? Be the life of a party, be the center of attention. It is not hard to do, you just have to do it.

If you try to adopt some of these qualities, you can still retain many aspects of your personality. You can still be the nicest guy in the world, you can still love women with all your heart, but at the same time, you have to be attractive. Love and attraction are two different things. Balance yourself.

But yes, it is completely true that good looks, a great body, high social status (and therefore value), power, and money are major advantages. I personally try to find women who AREN'T golddiggers, who are mature enough to not care so much about popularity, and who see the power I already have, but attractive women who care nothing about these qualities are rare.

I agree 100% with your statement about the media. The media is like poison to a man's success with women.