"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guide to "getting awesome with women" is being labelled a manual for would-be rapists

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What one man calls his guide to "getting awesome with women" is being labelled a manual for would-be rapists by others. On Wednesday, a popular #Reddit user reached the $16,000 mark for a Kickstarter project to turn his "Above The Game" series into a book.

http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/201306191919-0022842


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/19/above-the-game-kickstarter-tofutofu_n_3466538.html

The media is having a field day with this one. Any of you familiar with it? Found the article on Facebook and the feminists and white knights are going crazy. LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've never heard of this guy or the project, but I know RSD has been pushing the "cave manning" idea for a good while now. They meant it as basically pickup a girl up, putting her over your shoulder, and walking off with her though. This guy seems to take it a few steps further, throwing her against the wall and kissing her.

I know some guys on the RSD forum considered physically picking up a woman to be risky behavior, but of course most of those guys over there are pretty big fanboys of the site, so people who brought up the downsides would usually be mocked. I do think grabbing random girls that you don't know would be risky, but it probably depends on the general atmosphere and context of the situation, and how accepted into the group you are.
 

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zekko said:
I've never heard of this guy or the project, but I know RSD has been pushing the "cave manning" idea for a good while now. They meant it as basically pickup a girl up, putting her over your shoulder, and walking off with her though. This guy seems to take it a few steps further, throwing her against the wall and kissing her.

I know some guys on the RSD forum considered physically picking up a woman to be risky behavior, but of course most of those guys over there are pretty big fanboys of the site, so people who brought up the downsides would usually be mocked. I do think grabbing random girls that you don't know would be risky, but it probably depends on the general atmosphere and context of the situation, and how accepted into the group you are.
I cringed reading about "The C l aw" and other very aggressive "grab random girls" methods lol.
 
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