"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guide to "getting awesome with women" is being labelled a manual for would-be rapists

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What one man calls his guide to "getting awesome with women" is being labelled a manual for would-be rapists by others. On Wednesday, a popular #Reddit user reached the $16,000 mark for a Kickstarter project to turn his "Above The Game" series into a book.

http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/201306191919-0022842


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/19/above-the-game-kickstarter-tofutofu_n_3466538.html

The media is having a field day with this one. Any of you familiar with it? Found the article on Facebook and the feminists and white knights are going crazy. LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've never heard of this guy or the project, but I know RSD has been pushing the "cave manning" idea for a good while now. They meant it as basically pickup a girl up, putting her over your shoulder, and walking off with her though. This guy seems to take it a few steps further, throwing her against the wall and kissing her.

I know some guys on the RSD forum considered physically picking up a woman to be risky behavior, but of course most of those guys over there are pretty big fanboys of the site, so people who brought up the downsides would usually be mocked. I do think grabbing random girls that you don't know would be risky, but it probably depends on the general atmosphere and context of the situation, and how accepted into the group you are.
 

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zekko said:
I've never heard of this guy or the project, but I know RSD has been pushing the "cave manning" idea for a good while now. They meant it as basically pickup a girl up, putting her over your shoulder, and walking off with her though. This guy seems to take it a few steps further, throwing her against the wall and kissing her.

I know some guys on the RSD forum considered physically picking up a woman to be risky behavior, but of course most of those guys over there are pretty big fanboys of the site, so people who brought up the downsides would usually be mocked. I do think grabbing random girls that you don't know would be risky, but it probably depends on the general atmosphere and context of the situation, and how accepted into the group you are.
I cringed reading about "The C l aw" and other very aggressive "grab random girls" methods lol.
 
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