“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guide to being a Natural

schttrj

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A natural.... hmm.....

What is a natural?

A person with flesh and blood, who can show his true self and still girls love him and feel sexual about him. He may be going bald, exceptionally thin or short as hell, but there is something magical about him that pulls you towards him. Either his body language, his sense of humour, his enchanting voice or ice-breaking smile...

When do you use any tricks or techniques?

When we feel that we have to DHV, spike BT, neg her, tease her, c/f her, then we are actually thinking to ourselves that since we are not qualified for her, we need to bring her down to our level or put up with some fake acts to make her attracted towards us. This is neediness. Do we need her to become attracted to us? NO! she is already attracted to us or the moment I am going over to meet her, she will be like "wow, that's a dream-man!" There is absolutely no need to show disinterest too! As a matter of fact to the psychology students, if someone likes you, you like him/her. This is verified truth. You show you want her and she also feels something for you until you creep her out! This is what naturals do. C/F stuff, negging or such are all part of the daily interaction that you do with her. If you have always been playful, then good, be playful. But if you are not, then cool, focus on being the serious HOT GUY of the town.

She wants SEX, SEX and SEX, and showing her that you are a sexual being is what you need to make her come to you.

So what I am saying is, when you see a woman, don't be scared or confused of what to say (of course I know it is damn hard not to go blank but force yourself!), you should get into the sexual state and focus on how she would look naked and how you would feel having sex with her. Then it is time to meet her. Remember, you are very high value or HG10, so if she shuts you down, what the hell? She is going to lose! So you can just go and start by saying "hi" or "hey".

The mindset: She caught your attention and you wanted to meet her and know her better! Not that you want a chance to shag her yet. You need to know if she is right for you.

Never mind, if she smells what you are there for, ie, getting into her pants. Remember, you are the ONE among all the guys, so she is probably looking for a person like you. If she knows what you are there for, then it is helping in building the tension (the most important thing that leads to sex). If she has already got her person, cool. go for the next one.

Now, a natural is also something that he does. He is brutally honest about what he wants. At least most of them. My personal experience. The girls know he hangs out with many girls and that he is extremely covettable. He also states it clear to them his standards and that they have to comply by that.

And you would never see a natural needing her. He is unattached. Please note here he WANTS her! He persists and goes after her very strongly but the girl can never say that she has him wrapped around his finger. This is what a natural is.

And guys, remember something, when you are going to be natural, the first impression counts like anything. If you come off as slobby or like a joker, you are not a natural! You need to be the best, look the best and feel the best and present the best while you are a NATURAL! Looks, your body odour, the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you sit, the way you stand, the way you touch her, the way you look at her, all these counts.

It is very simple: You see her, you want her, you meet her (giving her the chance to notice that the dream-man exists), "getting to know each other" dynamic while being interesting as well where she feels that she can share her world with you, you bring the sexual tension right in when she is comfortable with it (you will know when's the right time when you are in-field enough) and keep amplifying the tension till it reaches the seduction.

Just to remind you all again, the sexual tension is a very important tool. It builds up the vibe right for seduction or for you to be a bf material and also to see if she is ready for that without any overt advances which you might regret later. Never underestimate sexual tension! It is this thing that brings in the seductive feeling in the weather and takes your interaction to a new level. In fact, a natural brings it ASAP since if you are already high value, she will be a little uncomfortable with that, but while she starts to feel comfortable with you, she actually starts to like that tension.

Here I end, correct or rate or comment as you feel like.

Well, in the end, I can only say that I don't think any natural is perfect in their game, they still need to improve themselves and know the base of the game.

Dating is a number game. Play it hard and keep at it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

sam3083

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Didn't read this, but still, Guide to being a natural. Seems like an oxymoron or a paradox or some ****.
 

schttrj

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Didn't read this, but still, Guide to being a natural. Seems like an oxymoron or a paradox or some ****
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ha ha, u seem to be a NATURAL......

... dumbo!

LOL, jk, anyways, you should give it a read. Perhaps, you can teach me something or I can teach you something!
 

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Your thread title is an oxymoron :)

Damn I thought I was the first person to post that.
 

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the title has DOUble-irony in a way. He makes it so that you're like "wtf", but then it makes alot of sense.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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