"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guide me through the motions, please

Nobody

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1st, yes I've read the bible at least 3 times. I still need a plan of attack, and can't figure out what to do.


There's some Freshman I like. I don't know how to go about handling it. She's following her friend everyday I see her. We've had eye contact at least 4 times, and I think she knows I exist. For example today, my friend has this obsession with this girl, and he told me to look one way. The girl was behind my girl, and I kept looking that way for him.We had short eye contact spurts, but maybe she thought I was stalking her. I also think she has a brother that's a Sophomore as well as me, and I don't know him. What do I do? Approach her with what? Help, please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ugh....I hate reading these.

If you don't know what to do in any situation, APPROACH. You don't stand there gawking at her, walk up to her and say 'Hello, what's your name?', or ask her about a opinion on something, or ask her how her day is.

That, and your friend is weak..weak bro. He must be a quiet type, not really open, and not popular by any degree. :)
 

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You've read the bible, and didn't feel insired by any of it?

Man, go talk to somebody in your family and have them SLAP you

HARD
 

life_of_a_legend

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THE RULES clearly states not to flame newbies...so don't!! Like the old saying says "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."

And to Nobody, there are many ways to approach this girl...but since you already suspect that she has a brother...your staring at the answer. Ask if she has a brother who is a sophomore. If she says no then tell her she looks like she's related to someone you see around. If she says yes you simply just say "Oh I thought so!" Then from there you can compliment her....ask her what subjects she does etc.

Good luck Nobody:up:
 

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hey ther New DJ, here is what i think you should do. When you get home today go on the hall of fame and quick tips section of this site, read as many articles as you can which are related to you. Then go to your local park, dress well(article about this in quick tips i think), practice your approaching and communication skills, also dont forget kino, and get as many numbers as you can. Do this for a week, when you are confident and experienced with the girls, then apporach her next week and rock her world.
Goodluck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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