Guide me please

[Leaf]

I screwed up. Remember that chick from my last post. Well this is an update.

With exams coming up our cohort is packed into a little room to practice. Obviously each of us has our own little niche/ social group. Well she came up to me and my friends, made conversation then essentially pulled me away to practice with her. This forwardness raised the eye brows of many and in particularly the guys in her social circle. As our course is quite physical, we end up in a position where she is on all fours and I'm standing behind guarding (don't ask). Her chick friends walk pass and I can see a wry smile and a chuckle from them from the corner of my eye. Well we finished our mock scenario and she went to grab her phone and I ended up drifting back to my group though I think she had intended for us to practice for the rest of the day.

That night being bored, I drifted onto her social media and ended up liking a picture of hers. Today, she didn't seem as interested. I'll admit the room was buzzing with everyone - it felt like a festival. She was still occasionally staring at me, smiled. Our social circle ended up merging during a break and I came up behind and plopped my head on her shoulder, leaning in and we had a quick chat before she jumped off the bench and over to her group of friends to get back to studying.

To me that felt like an all out rejection. I ended up drifting between groups and playfully teasing and chatting to girls as I studied. So I ignored her for the rest of the day getting back to my study as she'd occasionally stare my way. She left. I soon left and now I am typing this.

Yes I know I am going AFC. I know I am letting this chick get into my head. I know I should be better than this. But I need to let this out. I cannot talk to anyone at uni as the gossip would spread. I can't speak to other mates as they're even more incapacitated having broken up with their girlfriends.

I've just hit the gym to clear my head. I'm about to set up a schedule so that I can stop idle times which would let me think about her.

Biggest thing, as I said is I'm rusty. So I leave my next move to you guys. What do you guys think I should do?

To date I haven't got her number and rarely message her. Didn't reply to her last reply which was out of norm from her sent with 'xxx's.

I have a friend who is good with woman. He's told me to man up, get her number and ask her out. I just don't know how to go about it. I prefer asking in person/ getting her number in person but she is always surrounded by her female friends or at least one of her orbiters unless I've bumped into her and we magically walk off as the group is left behind.

 

[Desdinova]

You're putting the cart before the horse...

That night being bored, I drifted onto her social media and ended up liking a picture of hers.
I came up behind and plopped my head on her shoulder
To date I haven't got her number and rarely message her.

This is all in the wrong order and you're missing some steps here...

1) Get her number
2) Set up a date
3) Initiate kino on date. Aim for first kiss
4) Date her a couple more times and fvck her
5) Enter a LTR with her
6) Do romantic 5hit like put your head on her shoulder. Actually, she should be putting HER head on YOUR shoulder.
7) Like 5hit on her facebook.

Now here's the bad news...

Didn't reply to her last reply which was out of norm from her sent with 'xxx's.

It's obvious from this that she was interested at one point. If you fail to do anything when you get a green light like this, then her interest drops. Women don't remain interested for lengthy periods of time like men do. Women's interests and their moods are like voltage spikes. They shoot up really high, but for a very short duration. This is when you need to take advantage of their energy. When you hesitate, the spike goes away and you spend another night with your d1ck in your hand.

If you haven't already, scroll down to the page, click on the link that says "DJ Bible" and read, read, read.

 

[Leaf]

Cheers Desdinova, guess it's back to square one. Sorry to bring shame to SS. It is a painful mistake to make but one I shall heed. I promise I won't make the same mistake again.

 

[RangerMIke]

You have to move fast when a woman gives you the green light. When a women is feeling it she expects you to take action, when you don't she shuts you out and it is difficult, but not impossible to get another chance.