“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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insomniac9

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hi everyone, i'm a new member in your community. a friend told me about this place & i'm glad to be here, looking forward to learn from all of you guys.

i would really appreciate it if someone can point me in the right direction, like where to learn the terminology used here, the basic concepts accepted by most guys here, who are knowledgeable or experienced members, etc.

also, if a complete newbie such as myself has a current situation, yet i have not read/learned as much as i would need to figure things out myself, would it be ok to ask questions that may seem simple to the more experienced guys ?
 

Atom Smasher

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Welcome. You should read the DJ Bible. There's a link on the lower left of the page.

You're encouraged to ask questions, but be prepared for some "tough love" from some members. There are all kinds here... some are patient and some are tougher and more direct, but it's all in the name of helping men see the light.
 

insomniac9

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Atom Smasher said:
Welcome. You should read the DJ Bible. There's a link on the lower left of the page.

You're encouraged to ask questions, but be prepared for some "tough love" from some members. There are all kinds here... some are patient and some are tougher and more direct, but it's all in the name of helping men see the light.
thank you.
i already started reading some of the DJ bible, but it's a pretty long read & i've only been here like a couple of days, so i guess i'll post a thread with a question regarding a current situation.
 

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just so you understand that each situation is unique. women change quite a bit, and so do men. i've known some pretty wild party girls who settled down just fine, became doting grandmas.
 

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twentee said:
just so you understand that each situation is unique. women change quite a bit, and so do men. i've known some pretty wild party girls who settled down just fine, became doting grandmas.
cool story brah :rolleyes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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even Ayn Rand was an adulteress. You know. read the Branden's 2 books about her affair with Nathaniel.
 
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