Guess I spoke too soon when I thought I finally started spinning a plate

[Last_straw]

Well I feel stupid now. Had met this girl on fri night and we planned to meet up tomorrow. She seemed to like me, but I guess she just tricked me. What happened was I called her yesterday to figure out where and when we're meeting tomorrow. When I called she said she was driving and wanted me to call in 30 mins. I called about an hour later and she told me she was busy and she'd call me back. By the time I was going to sleep I hadn't heard from her so I sent a txt saying where and when to meet me and asked if that works for her. No response. So I'm figuring she's not interested and I'm taking another shift at work tomorrow when we're supposed to be meeting up. *****.

 

[ARrocket]

Look man, I don't mean to kick you when you're down, but this is silly.

Read your title. Spinning A Plate?

The ENTIRE purpose behind spinning plates is so that you have OPTIONS. When you have options, each little move by each girl is MEANINGLESS. Do you understand what I'm getting at?

Well I feel stupid now.

Why feel stupid? Her loss, life goes on.

See, if you were TRULY spinning plates, you'd have another girl you could call. And then you could go have a great time with her, and then YOU WOULDN'T EVEN BE CONCERNED ABOUT THE FIRST GIRL. If she calls you, great. If not, whatever, you got other girls. HER LOSS.

Now then, what's the solution? GO MEET SOME MORE WOMEN!!! Don't get me wrong, it's great you met this girl, but remember, a phone number doesn't mean all that much. You'll get lot's of numbers, but with that will come lot's of flakes. It's a numbers game in that regard, so DO NOT let it get you down. Just go out, meet some more women, and TRULY start spinning plates

IN REGARDS TO THIS GIRL: If she doesn't contact you, don't contact her for awhile. You may then try one more time, just don't go into it expecting too much.

 

[Last_straw]

I'm not contacting her again since I already deleted her number. She's blatantly ignoring me, she's not interested (I guess she's just a drunk slvt, which would explain her behavior fri night). And as for your comment, you need to start with one girl to be able to date multiple girls. I can't even get 1 girl to meet up with me. Fvck this ****!

 

[ARrocket]

And as for your comment, you need to start with one girl to be able to date multiple girls. I can't even get 1 girl to meet up with me. Fvck this ****!

1) You're missing the point entirely. YOU need to go out and MEET multiple girls before you can even THINK about dating them. Keep going out, keep getting numbers. Get numbers through your social circle, school, clubs your in, COLD APPROACHES, day game, night game, EVERYWHERE, ALL THE TIME. Call one up. No go? Call another. Flake? Get with another. Bang one. Bang another. THAT is spinning plates.

2) You really need an attitude adjustment. I understand that you feel like **** right now, but trust me...as soon as you start meeting more women and spinning plates, you'll feel a lot better.

What should you do now? Meet up with some friends and go out! Or alone, doesn't matter...meet some more women!!!!! If you have ANY prospects, hit them up! If not, make some more prospects. Seriously, feeling sorry for yourself and posting on SoSuave isn't gonna make you feel better. ACTION is.

 

[Last_straw]

I ended up meeting up with this girl today. She txted me last night, I told her I took a shift at work this morning but will meet up when I was done. Got off early, called her, and we met up shortly after. We had a couple of drinks then went back to her's to chill (my idea, she told me at first I wasn't coming to her place but a min or 2 later said it's ok). We smoked up, just talked. Little bit of make out, we go to her room, I try escalating and she pushes me away saying "Not on the first date". We kiss a bit, and I call it a day (we hung out for 2 hours, more than enough for today). Her friends were txting her to go see a movie tonight anyway, so worked for the both of us.