"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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abcd_z

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Go out. Open sets. Memorize an opener or two if you have to, but get some sets under your belt. Even if you get approach anxiety every single time, don't stop going out and making the attempt over and over until you succeed at that one little thing. And then, once you've got that done once, keep doing it again and again until you've mastered it. And once you've mastered that, move on to the next step. In this example, maybe getting good at spiking buying temp or telling DHV stories or just getting past the hook point. Whatever you decide the next step is, practice it. Over and over again.
And then, mastery, and the next step.
And then again.
And again.
Each victory will build on the last, until you finally hit the point where you'vve got so many women you can't keep up with them all.

But you'll never get there unless and until you make that first crucial step.
And the next one...
And the next one...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterMcGee

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I like when people think repetition is a 'writing style' and makes what they say 'stylistic'.
 
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