Grudge sexing an ex...

[white sox bill]

Hey Guys,

A while back, a girlfriend (or maybe just FB would be better name) screwed me around. She apparantly went back to her ex from before us, but she lied like a rug to me when she did it. I have learned in the dating world to take nothing personally. This being a casual fling, my ulterior goal is to fvck her again, this time anally like we once discussed. But first I have to get her to talk to me again, she probably still thinks I'm pissed at her. So..

Her birthday is coming up and I think I will send her a card, basically saying happy b-day, I wanna be your friend and only friends (yea right!) and no hard feelings. I know she will get screwed over by this guy, its a sure bet. I know this breaks the sacred DJ rules about messing with the ex, but this has ulterior motive, and the idea is to keep her spinning in the background as booty call..your feelings on this?

 

[Janez]

ignore her birthsday. just forget about her as soon as possible. try to get another date and date the new woman.

When you will feel better because having sex with the new one you might have chance to do your anal job

Good luck man

 

[The Truth]

Dude, whenever you are trying to get something from an ex you remain under her spell. It doesn't matter if you label it "grudge sex" or a "booty call", trying to have sex with her, pretending to be nice and whatever puts you in the same role as all other suplicating AFCs trying to get laid.

The only thing you should be doing with an ex who disrespected you is walking away. Have some self-respect and ditch the b!tch!

You can have sex with other women, so go and hit a club instead.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Dude, whenever you are trying to get something from an ex you remain under her spell. It doesn't matter if you label it "grudge sex" or a "booty call", trying to have sex with her, pretending to be nice and whatever puts you in the same role as all other suplicating AFCs trying to get laid. ...

Bravo!

 

[PheonixUK]

The only thing you should be doing with an ex who disrespected you is walking away. Have some self-respect and ditch the b!tch!

You can have sex with other women, so go and hit a club instead.

I agree 110%

 

[MacDiddy]

Was she a GF or not a GF??? or are you conveniently classifying her a FB coz you got left behind...

If she was a FB then yeah... you shouldn't be taking anything she says personally... Period!!! And you shouldn't be getting to attach to her nor her absence...

 

[white sox bill]

If and I mean big IF you take the breakup personally, which at time I did, but have since gotten over it, then yes ditch the wench and move on. I've moved on myself. Now I can manipulate her into bed with me for booty call. I know her buttons....no AFC behaviour.....no "too glad to talk to her" crap....yes I'm spinning other plates too....until I can seal the deal with another one, I'll take the ex for a ride around the block again....after all, I looked at her picture then looked at my left hand, and the former wins out over the latter!

Sent the card already, I will let you all know how this works out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If nothing else, its a good experiment. Wish me luck!

 

[mrRuckus]

It's so much fun when you leave a girl in the dust and she sees you at the bar with another hotter girl on your arm.

 

[Uro.Essence]

Everyones right, she still has you in her spell, soon as you **** her (if youdo) all those feelings will come back and you'll be wanting her more and more while she just shrugs you off again.

This isn't talking out of my ass either, i did the same thing to my ex for so long. Worst mistake of my life.

 

[white sox bill]

Everyones right, she still has you in her spell, soon as you **** her (if youdo) all those feelings will come back and you'll be wanting her more and more while she just shrugs you off again.

This isn't talking out of my ass either, i did the same thing to my ex for so long. Worst mistake of my life.

You know in a lot of cases, your right...but beleive me, I still have ex's over for the nasty every so often. When I was younger,(I'm 46 btw) I fell into same trap myself and yes its a bi*ch!! Really don't respect her enough to get back feelings, not that I ever felt them in the first place. I consider doing the ex like a recycling project....no need for me to get hung up on her, in fact I consider it exciting to think she may be banging someone else, in fact maybe I should ask if a 2 on 1 is her thing!!

 

[Uro.Essence]

lol. Alright it sounds that you know what you're doing, and won't get back in her trap, so i say go for it then. To be honest i still **** my ex, but because of that i still have feelings for her and it hinders my judgement in the field sometimes lol I've cut myself off from her for about a month now so her spell is fading now, hopefully it's gone soon.

Anyways goodluck and be sure to tape the sex with her next time lol

 

[white sox bill]

lol. Alright it sounds that you know what you're doing, and won't get back in her trap, so i say go for it then. To be honest i still **** my ex, but because of that i still have feelings for her and it hinders my judgement in the field sometimes lol I've cut myself off from her for about a month now so her spell is fading now, hopefully it's gone soon.

Anyways goodluck and be sure to tape the sex with her next time lol

I have already audio taped a few ex's in past yrs. I have cassette tape recorder that I could hide on window sill by bed. I'd be happy to share it with fellow DJ'ers if any compter techie could tell me how to transfer from cassette to audio link. You guys like the way she practically sings when she's having the OO. She hits high notes I've never heard before

 

[Uro.Essence]

LMFAO HAHA you're too funny man.

 

[Scorched]

I have already audio taped a few ex's in past yrs. I have cassette tape recorder that I could hide on window sill by bed. I'd be happy to share it with fellow DJ'ers if any compter techie could tell me how to transfer from cassette to audio link. You guys like the way she practically sings when she's having the OO. She hits high notes I've never heard before

Audio porn? Never have I heard of that...
Wow man, you should market that...

 

[white sox bill]

Audio porn? Never have I heard of that...
Wow man, you should market that...

Don't think the mods would approve of listening to me railing a bimbo...