"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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omgsurf

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i always come across these girls that dont know what they want. They love the attention and expect guys to chase them. I seriously hate playing this game. I give them a lil attention but they dont return it, i know shes interested though. Usually i would "next" these type of girls, but im having a hell of time nexting this one. I havent talk to her in like a week. what shall i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sean O

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Next her. Girls that expect you to go head-over-heels to chase them will bring you more grief than pleasure. Don't call her again. Doing this will either weed her out as a girl who isn't worth your time, or will cause her to start chasing you :cool:.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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That's the nature of women. They tend to go through stages.
  1. They don't know what they want.
  2. They think they know what they want.
  3. They get what they thought what they wanted.
  4. They realize that what they have isn't what they want.
  5. They tell the world what they don't want.
  6. They get the same thing that they thought that they wanted the first time.
  7. This process reoccurs until they come across a DJ that knows what HE wants
  8. She adjusts what she thought she wanted to what the DJ wants.

Seems like a bunch of BS but that's the pattern.
 

KingBeef

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's the nature of women. They tend to go through stages.
  1. They don't know what they want.
  2. They think they know what they want.
  3. They get what they thought what they wanted.
  4. They realize that what they have isn't what they want.
  5. They tell the world what they don't want.
  6. They get the same thing that they thought that they wanted the first time.
  7. This process reoccurs until they come across a DJ that knows what HE wants
  8. She adjusts what she thought she wanted to what the DJ wants.

Seems like a bunch of BS but that's the pattern.
BRAVO!!! :up:
 
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