“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alwaysclose7

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Dude I put so much time into self improvement. My business. My sales skills. Reading. Attending meetings because I’m sober. Going to church. Talking to girls and being a superhero they admire and look up to. Constantly trying to become more competent and confident.

Just pisses me off sometimes when self doubt and fear still creep in. When I am an extremely exceptional human being. Like as far as body image, sometimes I have a distorted view of myself.
 

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Dude I put so much time into self improvement. My business. My sales skills. Reading. Attending meetings because I’m sober. Going to church. Talking to girls and being a superhero they admire and look up to. Constantly trying to become more competent and confident.

Just pisses me off sometimes when self doubt and fear still creep in. When I am an extremely exceptional human being. Like as far as body image, sometimes I have a distorted view of myself.
Are you doing this for them? Or for you?
 

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Dude I put so much time into self improvement. My business. My sales skills. Reading. Attending meetings because I’m sober. Going to church. Talking to girls and being a superhero they admire and look up to. Constantly trying to become more competent and confident.

Just pisses me off sometimes when self doubt and fear still creep in. When I am an extremely exceptional human being. Like as far as body image, sometimes I have a distorted view of myself.
A lot of this is just the human experience. No one goes through life never having doubts no matter how competent, intelligent, good-looking, or charismatic they are. There generally is always someone out there that has more than one or more of those things than you do and it can sometimes make you feel unsure of yourself.

Embrace it. If there is something specific that is nagging you, address the issue directly and start taking steps to change it and expedite the process of getting over it. You typically always have this power to do just that. But accept you will always go through phases like this, and know they always have an end point as well.
 

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Dude I put so much time into self improvement. My business. My sales skills. Reading. Attending meetings because I’m sober. Going to church. Talking to girls and being a superhero they admire and look up to. Constantly trying to become more competent and confident.

Just pisses me off sometimes when self doubt and fear still creep in. When I am an extremely exceptional human being. Like as far as body image, sometimes I have a distorted view of myself.
Dude, it's called being human. Everyone has moments of self-doubt, including the richest and most powerful men. Unless you are talking about chronic depression or low self-esteem, what you are describing is totally normal.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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