"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Growing your balls

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Brothers, I'd like to give you a quick lesson on growing your balls. In this game women need a real man, a man who is about action. Women by nature are very passive and the hot ones are chased by numbers of men everyday.

I"ve come to realize that even if you're good looking, drive a sports car, are tall, and have a good job it may not even matter. Not to brag about myself, but this is my situation in the game. I was able to get 30 plus numbers on plenty of fish in the past 2-3 months or so, but I didnt have balls to take action.

I met a few girls in person who were willing to meet from just texts, but for the most part didnt get second dates even though they were willing to kiss me after the dates. I took some for dinner or drinks and spent a lot of money and this is something you should never do. Paying for a dinner with a stranger on a first date is a horrible strategy because most good looking women have more than one guy that they're talking to so you need to stand out.

Now I've grown my balls and just called 4 women in the last hour and it really changes the game. Fellas the lesson to learn is its very important to approach women, ask for numbers, and make the call within a day or 2. Do not wait because the longer you wait, the less chance you have of getting the girl.

For a lot of you you absolutely need to do the below:

Grow your balls, hit the gym, stop watching porn, get off the internet, buy some nice clothes, start approaching and ask for numbers. Do this for a while and you will be a new man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I give you guys a golden post and get no responses, shows what a bunch of keyboard jockeys that are scared to go out and do something there are on here. What a shame.
 

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its not a golden post its common sense


and honestly i never got the whole dinner date

i never been on a dinner date in my life


only time i ate out in a restaurant with a chick was AFTER she became my gf not before.
 

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Should i approach complete strangers because i dont know that many girls
 

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Yes, you need to hit up malls, clubs, and online dating... THe game is marketing yourself to getting women that are attracted to you, and you want do that by staying at home.

The best dates are cheap dates, where you can talk and get to know them then either get out fast, or try to bring her home that night. Dont spend too long around a woman because you may **** it up and lose her. The 2nd date you should push bringing her home because the longer you wait, the more likely someone else will **** her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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K the girl that caught my eye is in high school(i know im creepy) and i cant take her to my house cause i just graduated
 

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Dman101 said:
Yes, you need to hit up malls, clubs, and online dating... THe game is marketing yourself to getting women that are attracted to you, and you want do that by staying at home.

The best dates are cheap dates, where you can talk and get to know them then either get out fast, or try to bring her home that night. Dont spend too long around a woman because you may **** it up and lose her. The 2nd date you should push bringing her home because the longer you wait, the more likely someone else will **** her
actually a lot of my chick friends tell me they hate getting approached at stores..

most of em give the wrong number
 

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I was going to congratulate you on taking action and posting about it, Dman, but your second post kind of soured me on that.

I personally have started several posts that seemed to languish at first but then exploded with activity. Lots of guys read posts with the intent to view a few other opinions before responding, but then come back to respond later. I do that myself quite a bit.

Your second post shows a lot of insecurity still exists, but I still must congratulate you on picking up the ball and running with it. I'm repping you +1.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have hotter girls I want to call who approached me on dating sites, so I will need to grab my ****ing balls and pick up the phone and do it.. Women want strong men not weak texting cowards.
 

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I usually shoot for a balance. I'm able to get them to practically fall in love with me with some well-worded messages (I easily differentiate myself from the rest), and then I sense when to move in for the kill. But a lot of guys never do move in for the kill, so your advice is well received.
 

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Yeah my thing is I look kind of like Trey Songz and I'm 6'4, so this game should be easy for me, but I was always shy and stuff and scared to make moves, so its a journey, but I think once I get over the bull**** its gonna be simple.
 
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