"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Snap87

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Hey. I know that when you bulk, you get bigger basically everywhere. But does your neck grow too? i have fairly small, skinny neck that even girls can wrap their hands around. Are you supposed to do neck exercises, if so, what are they? If not, do they just grow naturally along with your other bodyparts while bulking?



THANKS!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes. It's not going to be huge gains. Working the traps, upper back and neck specifically all help out in neck thickness.
 

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Deadlifts are good, rows are good, these 2 do the traps well.

The neck itself, do neck bridges.
Basically, you lie on your back, lift your whole self up on the crown of your head and hold that position as long as you can, or rock back and forth, side to side, whatever. You can do the same thing with your body face down too.
Look them up on google if you want a pic to understand.
 

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Shoulder raises work. I believe it's a boxing training technique. hold a dumb bell in each hand and shrug your shoulders. That works your neck a bit. But yes, over time, your neck will tend to thicken
 

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Yes, they do it in boxing, but usually with a barbell.
But neck bridges are for the neck particularly and used in boxing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The fact that girls can wrap their hands around it, doesn't necessarily mean it's skinny. I have really small hands, but I can wrap my hands around my neck easily with every finger being able to touch one of the other hand. And my neck is no skinny at all, it's around 15", which is pretty average I think.
 
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