"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Growing my forearms......

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I have genetically bad forearms and hands. I've tried just about everything to directly and indirectly build the forearms. Farmer's walk, deadlifts, wrist curls, everything. Reverse curls seem to work pretty good for the brachialis (sp) that connects to bicep.

But I'm looking to really get more strength in my grip. I'm thinking of doing the towel pullups and wrist-rollers. Anybody have any ideas that have worked for them? Preferably from guys with non-naturally big arms/hands.

Oh and my diet is fine. What I'm looking for is the exercises...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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good ideas.
Tried a gripper? Try the captains of crush.
Rice digs.
Finger and knuckle pushups.
Flexing elastic bands ******DS - you train the squeezing, train the other way too. Push-pull. (round your fingers obviously)
Get something heavy at one end (hammer, one ended dumbell) and lever it elft and right, back and forth.
 

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Lost 5 lbs. of fat. Weigh 195 right now, probably 15-20% BF.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've noticed the higher i go in Deadlifts, the stronger my grip and forearm...how much do you DL?
 

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speed dawg said:
Lost 5 lbs. of fat. Weigh 195 right now, probably 15-20% BF.
Put on 20-30lbs of muscle and watch them grow. Deadlifts and reverse curls are your friend.

What height are you?
 

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Height is 5'10". I don't deadlift more than 225 because I have a herniated disc in my back. Although deadlifts/squats don't actually hurt me, I don't want to take chances. I actually don't lift more than 135 most of the time.

My health is more important than a big weight to me. That's why I'm looking at other options.

Yes I've hammer curled quite a bit in my time. Especially when I was playing football. I've done just about every typical exercise there is.
 

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http://www.ironaddicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13745

Two herniated disc and rack deadlifting 580x10. Big weight is the only way you will grow and the only way you will gain appreciable size on your forearms. Although if you worked on bringing your bf down to 10% whilst staying at 195 they would be quite a bit bigger than they are now. Of course that would involve big weight.

I think you should try and look into a program you can work with whilst proceeding cautiously. There are other things you could do that wouldn't put as much pressure on your back. Heavy pullups/dips/rows, you could maybe try front squats for legs- a lot more back friendly. Hiring a guy like IA who has been through this himself would probably be perfect for you if you could afford it. Great value for money in my opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reverse curl 6-8 sets of 15-20 reps, my forearms have grown significantly in the few years I've done this and last week I started seeing veins sticking out in places they weren't b4. Do the hand grippers as well. Currently I've added reverse ez-bar curls and they work the top of the forearms hard (anconeus muscle I believe?).
 
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