Groups Of Women

[flows101]

Hello my fellow Don Juan’s I need a bit of advice on women in groups
Straight to the point yesterday I went to a bar by myself after work I see a group of 3 girls ranging from about HB 7 to 8.5 they were sitting close beside me.
I go to the bar get a drink and make my way to their table ask if I can sit with them and they agree so I sit and start a conversation with the girl am sitting closest to the one I find most attractive after talking to her for a few minutes she starts acting less interested I wonder why seeming as things were going so well, then realise its her friends their getting annoyed, displaying negative body langue and all, so I start to split my attention from girl to girl.
I found this very difficult because if I would talk to one for a bit to long her friends and the girl I liked would start getting annoyed with me again and the one I would be talking to would pick up on this and start acting a bit less interested as well.

So I ask you my fellow Don Juan’s what is the best way to handle these sorts of situations.

 

[Juanito]

Hello my fellow Don Juan’s I need a bit of advice on women in groups
Straight to the point yesterday I went to a bar by myself after work I see a group of 3 girls ranging from about HB 7 to 8.5 they were sitting close beside me.
I go to the bar get a drink and make my way to their table ask if I can sit with them and they agree so I sit and start a conversation with the girl am sitting closest to the one I find most attractive after talking to her for a few minutes she starts acting less interested I wonder why seeming as things were going so well, then realise its her friends their getting annoyed, displaying negative body langue and all, so I start to split my attention from girl to girl.
I found this very difficult because if I would talk to one for a bit to long her friends and the girl I liked would start getting annoyed with me again and the one I would be talking to would pick up on this and start acting a bit less interested as well.

So I ask you my fellow Don Juan’s what is the best way to handle these sorts of situations.

im no 'DJ' but heres my humble opinion

its a common mistake most guys make with a pack of women - showing too much interest to one girl (hence, u make it obvious that u like her)

i suggest next time u talk 2 group of girls, 1. show them all equal attention or 2. show most attention to one least attractive girl

in that way, you can drive these girls into 'competition mode'...and make sure you dont bored them with boring convo like talkin about yourself, praising them, work etc

jus play it smooth man, as if you're talking to ur long lost friends lol

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Good point about working the entire group instead of just the lead singer. I actually try to pay less attention to my target so that when I do actually ask if I can steal her away from the group, her friends are already won over and agree and she is completely caught off guard because she thought that I wasn't interested in her. Love the game!