"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok so here's the deal...I'm in a group with 2 hot girls for a class at uni. I got the email/phone number for one, and the other one has a myspace page I can message her to get info for "class purposes".

The question is, should I act under the pretense of "class work", or should I just be more direct and ask out on cofee date or something (once more rapport is built). The problem is I want to try both of them, so I have to be careful that they don't both think I'm trying to play them.

Anyone have any experience with classwork turning into asswork? Haha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The question is, should I act under the pretense of "class work", or should I just be more direct and ask out on cofee date or something (once more rapport is built).
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Neither, build rapport and be the DJ that you are, you won't have to fake anything...

You see her daily in class, so patience is key...not too much, but some.
 
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That's a tough thing to ask...I feel I need to strike while the iron is hot.
 
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Remember what Gunwitch says...assume rapport. Just casually and unassumingly change the topic from school to other stuff.

If it was a guy, I'd bet you would have no problem switching up...

Don't think of them as "hot chicks I wanna bang", just treat them like you would a friend or aquaintance, don't make things too difficult.

Attraction is stronger than most people realize, even stronger than rules/gimmicks/tactics.

When the time is right, you'll know what to do...
 
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