"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Comeback kid

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So here is my dilema fellow DJs. I want to talk to this girl that i have seen around school, i only see her during lunch. Problem is at lunch time she sits at a table with 4 other girls. I already made up my mind that im going to appraoch but i feel like its suicide. Do you guys think i should still go through with this, what effect do you think talking to her around her friends might have. Right as lunch begins sometimes i se her alone so i can try to ctch her then, but if not then i guess its this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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Being able to approach a girl who is in a group and act cool towards her making your intentions clear exudes confidence like no other.

The only problem is like you said it feels like suicide the first few times lol.

Don't worry about it too much bro, approach her if you get the courage up when she's around her friends or alone but don't think too much about it as thats what fvcks you up and causes you to make a fool of yourself.
 

navyseal2101

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UUUGGHHHH, I want to say like go for it but idk why i'd be rly nervous if they are all hot, i'm not going to lie. anyway good luck and if you can keep you cool with it, it will work really well.
 
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