"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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group approach?

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I worked on week 3 of the boot camp today. I talked to 3 girls - one on a bus, and two in a bookstore. In the book store, there were other groups of girls that I couldn't figure out how to approach. They're already talking to each other; I feel like I'm interrupting them and can't talk to them unless I actually have a reason to. Any tips on approaching groups in public places? The same problem happened in a grocery store after the bookstore.

Also, why doesn't the boot camp tell you to get numbers in week 3? If you're talking to the girls anyway, might as well go for a number close, right?

One of the girls at the bookstore was an HB9. I wanted to ask for her number, but thought, "I'm just trying to talk to them this week." Now I'm thinking about how hot she was, and wish I'd got the number.

Is there any reason I shouldn't be collecting numbers in week 3? If not, I'm going to go for number closes if the conversation is going well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Week 3 is just designed to make you get used to talking to girls generally... if you want to number close go ahead my man, this is just a guide not a rule book.

Goodluck.
 
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