"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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group approach?

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I worked on week 3 of the boot camp today. I talked to 3 girls - one on a bus, and two in a bookstore. In the book store, there were other groups of girls that I couldn't figure out how to approach. They're already talking to each other; I feel like I'm interrupting them and can't talk to them unless I actually have a reason to. Any tips on approaching groups in public places? The same problem happened in a grocery store after the bookstore.

Also, why doesn't the boot camp tell you to get numbers in week 3? If you're talking to the girls anyway, might as well go for a number close, right?

One of the girls at the bookstore was an HB9. I wanted to ask for her number, but thought, "I'm just trying to talk to them this week." Now I'm thinking about how hot she was, and wish I'd got the number.

Is there any reason I shouldn't be collecting numbers in week 3? If not, I'm going to go for number closes if the conversation is going well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mikers

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Week 3 is just designed to make you get used to talking to girls generally... if you want to number close go ahead my man, this is just a guide not a rule book.

Goodluck.
 
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