"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Groove the Music

JlN

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Any great dancer out there that self-taught themselves willing to give me some tips? I don't have the time or the money for the dance lessons.

I don't have any fear of going up to the dance floors. But My dancing skills just stink man, I can't really do any thing with the music ..

Anyone willing to give me some tips on how to improve?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smooth Player 056

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Search...there are may threads on dancing. There are also some video instructionals if you search on google
 

xiola

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ive been dancing for years but what i do is i find one move i like from someone and use that, then find another from someone else and use that. do it again, put them all together and you have your own style
 
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