Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Out of all the 10+ years I have been doing my grocery shopping, only one really materialized. There was this woman who looked Latina but was actually light-skinned. She kept crossing paths with me, either intentionally or just by chance. She gave me a big smile and was bubbly and happy even before we talked. I threw a little game her way and things progressed from there.
Another instance, a young cashier made a direct pass at me once, though I declined because she said something that turned me off and I just wasn’t attracted to her.
I go to do my grocery shopping though and I don’t spam approach. I also live in the suburbs and I go to two grocery stores: one within walking distance from my house where I grab things quickly when I need them, and a more expensive one where I do my main shopping once every week or two. The higher end one people are more receptive, and time of day and season are key.
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Read the thread below. Don't hit on women while they are working their jobs. There likely wasn't anything there.
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I have arranged more first dates in grocery stores than any other classic daygame venue.
You mention living in the suburbs. I want to start with that point. Grocery stores in suburban neighborhoods are not good choices for approaching. I only recommend making approaches at grocery stores in neighborhoods where the majority of people in that area are unmarried. These will typically be grocery stores in urban neighborhoods.
-Absolutely!!! Grocery stores are first-rate venues for not only snagging cool chicks, but meeting cool people in general
The usual advice is not to hit on service workers. They’re literally paid to be nice, so it’s hard to tell if they’re genuinely interested — and it can put them in an awkward position since they can't just walk away. There’s also the classic “don’t **** where you eat” rule. If you grocery shop there often, things could get awkward for both of you if it doesn’t go well.
