"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heyjose25points

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I've been so used to just grinding and plan on not doing it as much as before, but what's a good way to keep distance but not actually grind(**** on ass) at the same time(Like Pimp its so scary suggested to me), should I still hold hips while keeping the distance? I went to a party one time with this chick and she wanted to dance with me, but she wanted to keep a little distance. It was hard doing it, so Should I just do the same motions as grinding, eventho there's some distance, and do you guys think its also good to also dance face to face initially?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thefonz

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I personally am a big fan of the sneak attack.....which is if a chick is giving me signals on the dance floor I'll wait til she turns around (or find away to dance around so she doesn't see me coming) and then as she's dancing with her back to me just grab her hips and pull her in to my dance. The rush of kino is a real shock to them and if she digs you it will completely turn her on.

I think this will knock your value up on the dance floor if you do this as opposed to dancing in front of them while they take the time to size you up. Don't be asshamed to walk up to a chick and just rub your nuts all over her ass, it's the modern mating ritual these days.......that's how we do it in 2005, Back in the middle ages you would hold out your hand and ask for a dance, Nowadays you get up behind her and rub your package all over her ass for a 1/2 hour (credit:Dane Cook), our society accepts this behavior so just go with it. And if girls truly did't like this I think they all woulda gotten together and stopped it a long time ago, but they don't cus they love to feel those boners rubbing against their back to the latest 50 cent song pounding out the speakers.
 

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the only whay to dance and "NOT GRIND" is to dance face to face. If she has her back toward you and doesn't want you to grind on her then she is giving you a hint to piss off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thefonz

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of course
 

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The chicken dance!!! Seriously. If you busted out that the girls would know you were actually confident and fun, and not just trying to get some cheap feel by grinding.

If you have the balls try it and thank me later!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by mizter6
has anyone ever been rejected/avoided/bad **** happen to them cuz they popped a boner on the girls ass while grinding?(espeically true with new girls??)
Never had bad stuff happen, but by the time I get wood, she is ready to get in my bed anyway...
 

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Don't be asshamed to walk up to a chick and just rub your nuts all over her ass, it's the modern mating ritual these days.......that's how we do it in 2005, Back in the middle ages you would hold out your hand and ask for a dance,
:cheer:


is there any other way to dance???
 
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