"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Heyjose25points

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I've been so used to just grinding and plan on not doing it as much as before, but what's a good way to keep distance but not actually grind(**** on ass) at the same time(Like Pimp its so scary suggested to me), should I still hold hips while keeping the distance? I went to a party one time with this chick and she wanted to dance with me, but she wanted to keep a little distance. It was hard doing it, so Should I just do the same motions as grinding, eventho there's some distance, and do you guys think its also good to also dance face to face initially?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thefonz

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I personally am a big fan of the sneak attack.....which is if a chick is giving me signals on the dance floor I'll wait til she turns around (or find away to dance around so she doesn't see me coming) and then as she's dancing with her back to me just grab her hips and pull her in to my dance. The rush of kino is a real shock to them and if she digs you it will completely turn her on.

I think this will knock your value up on the dance floor if you do this as opposed to dancing in front of them while they take the time to size you up. Don't be asshamed to walk up to a chick and just rub your nuts all over her ass, it's the modern mating ritual these days.......that's how we do it in 2005, Back in the middle ages you would hold out your hand and ask for a dance, Nowadays you get up behind her and rub your package all over her ass for a 1/2 hour (credit:Dane Cook), our society accepts this behavior so just go with it. And if girls truly did't like this I think they all woulda gotten together and stopped it a long time ago, but they don't cus they love to feel those boners rubbing against their back to the latest 50 cent song pounding out the speakers.
 

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the only whay to dance and "NOT GRIND" is to dance face to face. If she has her back toward you and doesn't want you to grind on her then she is giving you a hint to piss off.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thefonz

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of course
 

zerocelcius

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The chicken dance!!! Seriously. If you busted out that the girls would know you were actually confident and fun, and not just trying to get some cheap feel by grinding.

If you have the balls try it and thank me later!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by mizter6
has anyone ever been rejected/avoided/bad **** happen to them cuz they popped a boner on the girls ass while grinding?(espeically true with new girls??)
Never had bad stuff happen, but by the time I get wood, she is ready to get in my bed anyway...
 

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Don't be asshamed to walk up to a chick and just rub your nuts all over her ass, it's the modern mating ritual these days.......that's how we do it in 2005, Back in the middle ages you would hold out your hand and ask for a dance,
:cheer:


is there any other way to dance???
 
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