"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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vonbock

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There is a girl I am going after. She is 33 y.o, professional. About a 5/10 on looks. She is cute but short. 5'0". Well, I have been trying to go after but she always plays hard to get. One day sheinvited me to go clubbing with her and her friends. I wind up there and I see she invited 2 other guy friends along with all the different girls. Well, at night she started drinking and started to grind all the girls. Then she grinds all the guys there also. She hold all their hands, jumps into the arms, etc. Now if you were going aftre a girl and she was grinding other guys, would you feel disrespected?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got to admit, I hate the whole "freaking", "grinding" thing. It's too bad but I think we really lost the idea of dancing with some class. I'd prefer to learn how to salsa and dance to that then the bump n' grind stuff at most clubs.
 
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it's not disrespect, she probably just sees you mainly as a friend

And she sounds like kinda a hor anyway; beware.
 
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Makro2323

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Yeah, just avoid her completely. You said she was only a 5/10 in looks anyway, so it should be no big loss. I hate attention *****s who have their heads up their own asses and think that everyone loves them. Usually, I put them down a peg or two by ignoring them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Norisman

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You wer just there for her self validation.... avoid her! Next time grab some other chick n enjoy your night...

speakeasy.. Grinding is cool, if you wanna dance salsa like an 18th century Latin Knight in a modern club, Go ahead and enjoy, but plz let the "cool ppl" grind!
 
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