"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does anyone else get a hard-on when grinding with a a girl at a club?
Also, any techniques that you have used when dancing would be appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rock22 said:
Does anyone else get a hard-on when grinding with a a girl at a club?
Also, any techniques that you have used when dancing would be appreciated.
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To the first part yes I usually do, but the girls don't give a fvck. And as to techniques I could only tell you to keep practicing, no one really knows what they are doing. IMO grinding is like having sex with clothes on under the pretense of dancing.
 
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Rock22 said:
Does anyone else get a hard-on when grinding with a a girl at a club?
Also, any techniques that you have used when dancing would be appreciated.
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You are supposed to get a boner when you grind. If you get too much wood too fast, you can back off slightly and apply less pressure.

Some more romantic/seductive techniques include putting your cheek next to hers (while both looking the same direction). It's like you are hugging her from behind. To really get her wet, brush the hair off the back of her neck and plant a kiss on her neck. Then go back to normal grinding.

Don't spend all night grinding her a@s. Try to turn her around for some face to face grinding. If she won't face to face grind you, she might have low interest level. Face to face grinding is more intimate and leaves her more open for a makeout. If she's not that into you, she will avoid the position.
 
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