"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grinding teeth when asleep?

payaya

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Hey all what causes this? My girlfriend does it sometimes when sleeping, its has only started happening not long ago.

Its pretty loud, and i can actually see her bottom jaw move side to side.

Is there any ways to stop this?

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's called a Polar Bite Plane. My dentist informed me that I grind my teeth and he said he should make me one of these. It ended up costing $350 and it's this big retainer like device that let's you grind all you want but it doesn't mess up your teeth.
 

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sometimes stress related. I have this too, and it is causing some minor tooth decay issues.
 

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Originally posted by Metaphor
It's called a Polar Bite Plane. My dentist informed me that I grind my teeth and he said he should make me one of these. It ended up costing $350 and it's this big retainer like device that let's you grind all you want but it doesn't mess up your teeth.
or you could go to a sports equipment store, pick up a $3 mouthguard, and have the same result. If it has a strap on it (to attach to a football helmet), just cut the strap off. Follow the directions to form it to her mouth. You just need one for the top.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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