grinding on the dance floor leads to a boner?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Allurre

Master Don Juan

Apr 23, 2009

If you two just met within the first five minutes and you get an erection, dance away until you calm down.

Wait until the fifth or sixth track until you allow yourself to loose control from waist below.

Through time, you can tell how attracted she is to you. The longer a woman dances with you, the more accurate as an indicator that she likes you.

And being a guy that's danced with over 150 girls, yes, women like the feeling of a boner. It won't seem awkward if you don't make it awkward.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.