grinding on the dance floor leads to a boner?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Allurre

Master Don Juan

Apr 23, 2009

If you two just met within the first five minutes and you get an erection, dance away until you calm down.

Wait until the fifth or sixth track until you allow yourself to loose control from waist below.

Through time, you can tell how attracted she is to you. The longer a woman dances with you, the more accurate as an indicator that she likes you.

And being a guy that's danced with over 150 girls, yes, women like the feeling of a boner. It won't seem awkward if you don't make it awkward.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.