"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grinding in the club! Does it lead to anything? How?

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I go out to bars and clubs all the time, and all I can conclude is that in a dance club type scenrio or even in a bar scenrio, unless you have build some type of attraction or rapport large enough with the female, then her friends will **** block you, happened to me a lot. So the best thing to do, is when you get done dancing, tell her you got to tell her something, try to find somewhere, if its possible, in the club so you can kino her and stuff, then get her to agree to come back to your place, and if you build the attraction big enough, she will tell her friends to back off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you escalate the situation from just grinding? Simple, you must be more fun to her than the club itself. This has been discussed many times. Instead of her viewing the club as the party, you must be the party!!! This is obviously easier said than done, but if she's really into you, you've got a good shot. You need to isolate her though and the best way of doing so is to make sure her friends aren't around. We all know that girls want sex just as much as guys; however, social programming typically wins at a venue like a club since girls don't want to be viewed as sluts. For girls its: Risk of tainted social image > Possible Great Sex. This is where 2-3 wingmen come in handy. If you can isolate this chick and get her mind strictly on you she won't even think twice about leaving her friends and bounce with you. And one more thing, don't even bother getting #s at clubs.
 
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Amen broham, getting a number in a club and expecting some success, if like eating fast food everyday and expecting to lose weight.
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
Amen broham, getting a number in a club and expecting some success, if like eating fast food everyday and expecting to lose weight.
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Unless your name is Tracy Gold.
 
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I guess sometimes you can transition into a make-out session and sometimes you can't. Just try to progress slowly and watch the response.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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