"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Am I suppose to get a hardon while grinding? Do girls like it?

Soemtimes I get one, sometimes I get half-boners, other times I dont at all. It obviosly depends on how attractive the girl is. Is this natural? Are true DJs suppose to be able to control the bloodflow to the penis by thinking of something really nonsexual? I don't see how it works.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haha I was just about to ask the same question lol. I dont Grinddance much, I more enjoy Ballroom but sometime the club is all about it. So what do you do. I am a BOB (heh) so i can control myself a bit but when it gets happy, it gets happy. So what do you do. I know they notice because it would be hard to miss. Do I push it off to the side? Just kinda push into it and hope she doesnt mind? Once I get in the groove sometimes then i can dance aight but when its straight out and you feal everyone can see it and she feal it, it just feals aquward.
 
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Hmm.. your **** gets hard when you rub it on a chicks ass... go figure. Of course its normal. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, they love it when you put your hard dik in between their ass cheecks. They love to know that they can turn a guy on. They'll even back it up even more vigorously!
 
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just push it to one side. when i got one they never seemed to mind
 
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What better way to show her your sexuality?
when you get a boner grind closer...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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don't worry the first time I popped a massive boner while grinding I got a bit embarrassed too. I sat down on the stage (we were next to the stage), and she followed me and started rubbing her tits in my face and giving me a handjob thru my jeans.

now i'm thinking of going into clubs with a boner sticking out my fly.
 
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So I went to a club last night and had a great time. However, when dancing with a few friends (who are girls) I started getting a boner/semi-boner with them occassionally. There were two girls I was dancing with that I kept getting excited while dancing with them, but with the third girl I didn't get the slightest hardon at all. Anyways, I did start freaking out a bit, because I'm usually in control while dancing and tend not to get a hardon. The girls I was dancing with didn't seem to freak out or anything about it, and actually started grinding me harder when I would get a semi-boner. Also, the only other guy that the girls were dancing with besides me was gay, so do you think they enjoyed dancing with me even more since he probably showed no signs of excitement while dancing with them?
 
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Its not bad,actually ****ING TRY to get a boner when grinding AND RUB IT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ON HER ASS,MAKE SURE SHE FEELS IT.Then grab her hand and half-spin her (compliance test),get her close to you(by the waist) and RUB YOUR **** ON HER PUBIC REGION.
 
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And make sure you don't seem embarassed by it,even if she asks you about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wasn't telling about verbalizing that you don't care,but through BL etc,of course the sly smile is gold :D
 
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Fuk it man... it's a natural thing! No need to be ashamed of it...

I once spent like 2 houres in the ocean waiting for my boner to lie down because some dumb broad kept turning me on and keeping it up. I wanted to get out because i had to go... so i figured fuk it, i'll just bite through the sour and get out of the water.

Yeah it was embarasing, some guy kind of burst into laughter and then said "heck, it happens" (cool guy). Now i just don't care really ;-)
 
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Do you think it's better for me that the gay guy dances with the girls too? That way they feel no connection with him, but only with me?
 
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Do you think it's better for me that the gay guy dances with the girls too? That way they feel no connection with him, but only with me?
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Stop overanalyzing
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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