"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Greenbrier police rescue children locked in a confined space; mothers charged with child abuse

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Two women in Greenbrier, Tennessee have been arrested for allegations of abuse and child neglect after a 15-year-old girl was found locked in a space smaller than a coffin, and a nine-year-old child who had never been to a doctor or dentist. The police discovered that the children's mothers had moved to Greenbrier from Ohio recently and claimed that their children were being home-schooled but could not provide any curriculum or lesson plans. The women have been charged with multiple felonies, including aggravated child abuse and neglect. The children are currently staying with family friends while investigations are ongoing. The Tennessee Department of Children's Services has opened up an investigation into possible educational and medical neglect, physical and psychological abuse.

Women are typically the primary caregivers for children, so they may be more likely to be the ones responsible for their well-being. This means that if a child is neglected or abused, the woman may be more likely to be the one held responsible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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