"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great way to spice up the goodnight kiss

ChuChuTrain

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I was on a date the other day and as I drove to her home and walked her to the door, and I said
'I had a great time, we'll meet up again soon'
and she said 'same here, had a blast' and the way she looked at me, I knew it.

She was waiting for the goodnight kiss.

Being the playing-hard-to-get guy that I am, I started to walk back to my car and when i was about to open the car door, I said 'wait up, I forgot to give you something' and started walking to her pretending to pull something out from my pocket. Then when she least expected it, I kissed her. i could tell that she was suprised and a bit turned on =)

A good technique to increase sexual tension at the end of the night.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HappyHarryHardon

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lol, good job bro :) sounds kind of like my date the other night. they give you that look. those eyes staring at yours waiting for something :D

would of enjoyed a make out session but it was three short kisses. i will get my chance on next week in the back seats of the movies.!
 

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Interesting. I like it, but I think I prefer to show immediate boldness and aggressiveness over your clever tactic. My only concern is that it could show that I was initially fearful to go for the kiss. Still, I may try it sometime. I deal with slightly older women (late 30s to mid 40s) and I think they expect more aggressiveness from guys my age (53 but I look and act 35).

I think it's worth a shot, though. Good tip.
 

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That's cute. Some girls might think it's corny but some won't. Consider who you're with.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Interesting. I like it, but I think I prefer to show immediate boldness and aggressiveness over your clever tactic. My only concern is that it could show that I was initially fearful to go for the kiss.
You can let her know you weren't initially fearful by saying someing along the lines of ' that was fun' or 'you aint seen nothing yet' after you kissed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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