"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great way to get girls at the mall or on the street.

strams4ever

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HERE IT IS... I'm the guitarist for a local band... go hand out flyers advertising an upcoming show. HS chicks love band guys... you might want to try this one. It works anywhere..usualy... I did it in front of Victoria's Secret (hotties go there) and the mall police guy asked me to not do it there. good luck...

me: hey, could you come to "show location" and support my band?
her: I have heard of you guys before, I havent got around to making it out to a show yet, definatly!
me:(hands flyer, you can get the number here... or at the show if she goes)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah this is a great idea for HS guys! A suggestion for those 19+ would be to find a promoter to supply you fliers to hand out daytime. Great way to get comfortable talking to girls... I'd have something good to follow up with if you want to game them, though.
 

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yeah, flyer giving is always good at getting upclose to random people, and guys in bands always get the girls.
It's a shame I don't play **** :(
Good luck, mate :)
 

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Originally posted by Aznkid1030
pretty good idea...chicks like guys to play guitars :woo:
No, they like traits that guys who play guitars have, not the fact that they play the guitar.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol i'm such a good rockstar. its what helps get me in the mood. write songs about beating women and just take on that rockstar "i dont need you" persona.
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Juggalo
I KNEW I shouldn't have stopped playing the guitar...:mad:
totally. take on the jimi hendrix "i dont need you cause i can always have sex with my guitar" adittude. it gives u something to put ahead of women, which is always important.
 
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