"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great teeth matter A LOT - your thoughts?

Rocko90

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I was invited out last night to a venue to meet about 15 friends and some other people.
Everyone was hooked up with a partner was somewhat attractive. I went by myself to check it out. I really didn't care that I was single last night because none of the girls were really my type anyway. But instead I wanted to step back and be like a social scientist to find out why each partner was attracted to each other. And why I was single.

As I studied the couples I try to find out what it was attractive about each of them and what made them form a relationship -- both male and female.

I looked purely at their appearance and less about their personality.
Even though their faces were not overly attractive most of them had one thing in common. NICE NATURAL TEETH.

Every single cute or average looking couple had great looking smiles. Some had crooked noses, some bags under the eyes, some bad hairdos, some bad dressers, some had bad looking eyes-----but their mouths were sexy. The guys had great teeth too. Some guys were not so goodlooking, but had radiant smiles. I knew that if I was a girl I would compliment them on their smile. The girls all had a nice teeth too.

I have bad teeth. Old veneers on all my front teeth that need to replaced and yet I was the only dude was single. Even when I flashed my smile(I didn't care) the girls either rejected me or were non-responsive. Some girls liked my personality and charm and talked with me. But they immediately told me they were married or had a fiance. Well, I had no intention of hooking up but I was pretty mad at the way I was treated even though I was nice, warm, friendly, confident, and dressed well.

I thought to myself are bad teeth a deal breaker? My face is handsome. I get told that a lot. Ok, so I spend $3000 to get my teeth fixed. They are still fake, nice looking teeth.
My conclusion: Sorry guys if you have bad teeth MAYBE you will be at a HUGE DISADVANTAGE and no don juan skills would snag you any p*ssy. Women can be extremely shallow, trust me on that. Your thoughts?
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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st_99

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Last girl I developed Oneitis for after she rejected me ended up in a relationship with some
guy with bad looking teeth, hair loss and worn out clothing. Go figure. :confused:
 

Rocko90

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Maybe they were just friends?

this is driving me crazy.....if good teeth arent the answer...then what do women want then?
 

FairShake

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Rocko90 said:
then what do women want then?
Depends on the woman dude.

That said, I do suspect alot of them like nice teeth. Generally being pulled together both sartorically and physically, looking like you give a damn, can help you even if you aren't very good looking with alot of women. Teeth are relatively easy to keep clean and white at least.

Also to be said, my teeth are kind of crooked. I grew up poor as dirt and couldn't afford braces. Now that I can I have never really wanted for them. But my teeth are pearly white nonetheless and many a woman has appreciated my hygiene.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Look, if you've got great teeth, it's a great asset for you, no question.

But if not, it's not a dealbreaker. Keep your hygiene up, like FairShake says, and do what you can. Hopefully there are other things about you that can make you attractive.
 

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Like height or nice cheek bones, great teeth only matter to those who don't have them.

Regarding teeth, I think they only matter if they're really bad or really good. Use em if you got em. If not, improve what you can, but don't let them affect your game.
 

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i love women with high cheekbones, that's so damn sexy to me.

my family never has had the greatest teeth on earth. by the time i was 16 i had to have the two widnsom teeth and the two teeth right next to them on the right side of my mouth pulled because they were growing in crooked. ever now if you actually really looked at my mouth I have no teeth in the far right corner of my mouth, it's just empty space. but no one can see that though so it's not a big deal

but when i went on my title backbreakers drug adventures tour, you want to talk about fvcked up.. one day i ust woke up.. wasn't even doing drugs that day, just a normal ass sunday morning, went to take the trash out, felt something giggling around in my mouth.. my fvkcing front tooth lol. even worse, it wasn't even the entire fvcking tooth, half of it like, split in half, like the front part of my tooth just fell off. so like when I would smile, you would see this b ig ass blank space and then what was there, was nothing but enamal. very nasty looking.


you want to know something though. well, i don't have a big mouth for one, i have small lips.. NO ONE NOTICED IT. not even my mom, and you would think she would know. when i showed her she was just floored. I mean, if you were just looking for **** you could see it, and in that period, i had gained weight so i wasn't doing much dating anyway, but i made a huge deal out of it, not many people if any really saw it or paid it any attention. I also got good at not really fully opening my mouth. as long as i didn't just smile, again i have small lips, you really couldn't notice it.


with that said, the DAY i left rehab, the first p lace i went was the dentist and told him look, you gotta fix this ****. i dont' care what it costs, i can't walk around like this, so i had it yanked (got a tooth implant the **** was so fvcked up. hurt like hell too), and while i was at it got some more work done that i had neglected for a while as well as got my teeth whitened.. i spent a pretty penny but it was well worth it, i am alot more confident. **** looks real/great too. you wouldn't know unless I told you. My wife didn't know until i told her about a checkup dentist appointment after we started dating, lol she told me she felt cheated because she thought i had a great smile lol

it's worht fisxing for self esteem issues alone.
 

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I got dentures at age 21, courtesy of the US army, and have no regrets. It changed both my looks and my luck with women, almost overnight and to the nth degree, and I never gave another dime to dentists,and barring a car wreck or something that breaks them, I never will. Dentists tell you to "keep your teeth as long as possible", cause once you go to dentures, they get NO more money from you!.U might have to do a bit of research, but there are FINE dentists in Mexico, at about 1/5th what a US dentist charges.
 

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I have great teeth, but never really had any compliments on them. Teeth are one of those things that people don't notice unless they're really bad.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backbreaker

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evansblue said:
I have great teeth, but never really had any compliments on them. Teeth are one of those things that people don't notice unless they're really bad.
kinda like kids
 
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