Great question to all you Alpha males out there

[myfriendblu]

Got a question to all you alpha males out there on an observation I have noticed in my life lately. Like many of you long time Dj's, even before I found this site, i have always been kinda Alpha male-like. Im NOT a center of attention a-hole or a jerk that looks for fights, but i just kinda exhibit quite a few alpha male characteristics, and have been developing them even further with this site. You know, always leading conversations when girls are around, being the leader of the pack, very interested in my own life and hobbies and basically looking out for myself and doing the things i need to do to further myself.

Now my question - Do you notice, that you often find it difficult or downright impossible to be friends with other alpha males? I mean im a decent guy I try to be cool with everyone, its just that i often find myself butting heads with other alpha male type guys. Basically, they tend not to like me or get along with me, and I find them basically avoiding hanging out with me, and i kinda avoid socializing with them. About a week ago i was at birthday party type thing at a bar, and another alpha male type dude was hanging out with us that knows me fairly well. i could tell the immediate tension as soon as i arrived from him. I also noticed he seems very guarded and a little pissed off every time around him. The other guys we were with were beta male types, so everything was cool. Im not one that believes in the whole alpha male thing as a scientific fact, but i do believe it does have some relativity and usefullness in dating and interaction with other people.

 

[K-Daddy]

It's been mixed with me. Some dudes seem like they have something to prove, but some have been really cool. The ones that get an attitude probably aren't as alpha as you think. They're usually the one that gets the attention because they're loud and brash and stuff. The ones that are really chill and laid-back can be some of the coolest ones; they're the alpha for a reason. The others are alphas until someone better comes along and makes a fool out of them.

 

[Krassus]

I can fully relate to everything you just said: your description of yourself actually describes me pretty well. My theory is that the reason alpha males don't get along is because one often feels like the other is challenging his supremacy. And ironically enough, it's usually the weaker, less confident one. Because one who is truly confident doesn't spend his time worrying about others: he KNOWS that he's truly the best man and will come out on top no matter what.

 

[Slickster]

I agree some guys you just won't get along with.

However you'll find a few alpha guys that you'll be able to work with and in my experience its deadly. You'll ride on each others energy and when one of you is down the other pulls you up.

Kinda like Maverick and Goose, two Top Guns

 

[WatchMeWalk]

The only thing that irritates me about being an Alpha male is attracting beta followers.