"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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kylea1

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hey i've been visiting this site for little over a month now...I'vealways had potential game but due to some waste of time broads and my wingmen deserting me i lost some confidence....So this past month i've been approaching women and workin out more than usual and i've seen my confidence grow somewhat..Now my game plan was to find as many girls/numbers as possible but i ended up meeting this girl and made out with her and got her number within like 5 minutes! I was like "Am I that hot, or is this toooo easy?!"...Never the less I ain't turnin neone away with my slump!! This was probably a HB 7 - 7.5...cute....Riigghhht, so I'm on cloud 9 now, confidence high as a mofo.
Now I'm questioning myself!!! Do I stick to the plan or do i stray and try the relationship thing! Now a week later, I decided to go clubbing again( forgot to mention she was a club pick up) to see if i could get a backup plan. I wanted to chill with the girl but i got voicemail on the night before and she said she wasnt sure what she was doin the night after, which was when i txted her...
My thinkin was u don't bring sand to the beach, but somehow my afc side started showin up and i wanted to actually chill with her...Not to my knowledge she was there but i somehow didin't recognise her...Well i texted her the day after and she told me that she saw me and i didnt say hi or whatever...But i honestly did not see her! I apologized and all dat **** and now I feel sooo bad!! AFC-ness maybe?
I Really dont know what to do! I wanna stick to the plan, but i think i have a sure thing here! After than nice fling I'm assuming it's a sure thing..Sorry for all this unscry. rambling but what to do!!? R'ship the sure thing or go back hunting..Thanks alot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wait it out, as a good rule of thumb, wait 1-3 months to start exclusively dating someone. Why I say this, is that if the girl is really worth your time, she will stick around long enough to start being your girlfriend, if she is flakey she will bounce as soon as you don't devote 100% of your attention to her.
If she asks alot of questions, such as, "what are we" or, "am I the only one" all you have to say is, "I am not ready for that emotional investment right now, but I would love to continue spending time with you so we can get to know each other better"
Remember, the girl of your dreams will do anything for you, and you will do the same.

--Mission
 
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