"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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great guy?

GuyNJ13

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Just a thought ..
If a female calls you a "great guy", would that fall under the "nice guy" category? I was told I was a great guy and that she wanted to see more of me.

Any thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm&Style

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Dude why are you worrying at such an early stage? Shes asked you out. Go out be cool and relax, have fun, initiate and worry last about falling under the "friend" category. The more you are tense worrying about being a friend the more your game collapses and you start acting weird.

As long as you see interest from her and you initiate you have nothing to worry about.
 
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